Me (24f) and one of my coworkers (34m) have been sort of flirting with each other from time to time, probably since august’24. I really want him, and when I say really, I mean re-listening our Teams meetings just to get wet by his voice. And I know he wants me as well.
The problem is, I’ve been with one person before him, and we’ve been in ldr. So yeah, I have some experience, but clearly not enough to feel confident in what I’m doing, and due to it I feel pressure, like “you are not a virgin anymore, so why do you act like you are”, which I can’t get out of my head.
I know, that everyone like different things, and it’s always new with each person, but how do you stop being nervous? We plan to meet outside of work in a week or two, and I’m shaking already. The fact that his older and more experienced doesn’t help too lol
In advance, for those who wanna say “don’t bang a coworker”: 1. we don’t work on the same team and can escape meeting each other irl in the office 2. we both are ready to quit anyway, so if things get messy, it won’t be a big problem
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r/sex Me (24f) and one of my coworkers (34m) have been sort of flirting with each other from time to time, probably since august’24. I really want him, and when I say really, I mean re-listening our Teams meetings just to get wet by his voice. And I know he wants me as well. The problem is, I’ve been with one person before him, and we’ve been in ldr. So yeah, I have some experience, but clearly not enough to feel confident in what I’m doing, and due to it I feel pressure, like “you are not a virgin anymore, so why do you act like you are”, which I can’t get out of my head. I know, that everyone like different things, and it’s always new with each person, but how do you stop being nervous? We plan to meet outside of work in a week or two, and I’m shaking already. The fact that his older and more experienced doesn’t help too lol In advance, for those who wanna say “don’t bang a coworker”: 1. we don’t work on the same team and can escape meeting each other irl in the office 2. we both are ready to quit anyway, so if things get messy, it won’t be a big problem submitted by /u/mdaidk [link] [comments]
Me (24f) and one of my coworkers (34m) have been sort of flirting with each other from time to time, probably since august’24. I really want him, and when I say really, I mean re-listening our Teams meetings just to get wet by his voice. And I know he wants me as well.
The problem is, I’ve been with one person before him, and we’ve been in ldr. So yeah, I have some experience, but clearly not enough to feel confident in what I’m doing, and due to it I feel pressure, like “you are not a virgin anymore, so why do you act like you are”, which I can’t get out of my head.
I know, that everyone like different things, and it’s always new with each person, but how do you stop being nervous? We plan to meet outside of work in a week or two, and I’m shaking already. The fact that his older and more experienced doesn’t help too lol
In advance, for those who wanna say “don’t bang a coworker”: 1. we don’t work on the same team and can escape meeting each other irl in the office 2. we both are ready to quit anyway, so if things get messy, it won’t be a big problem
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