My gf and I (both late 20s) just recently started having sex. We were both virgins beforehand. We started slow and followed advice I’ve seen on this sub. Missionary, lots of lube, and didn’t push it when she was in pain. It took us several attempts for her to be less tight and for her to learn to relax. Now we can do it in missionary with no pain and its great for both of us.
However, we have started trying different positions and she feels pain again. We’ve tried doggy and pronebone and I am barely inside of her before she feels pain. I am not particularly large either (about 5 in.) We both assumed that after she loosened up in missionary, that she would be loose for everything, but do we have to do the same loosening up process for every new position? Is that normal or could we be doing something wrong?
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r/sex My gf and I (both late 20s) just recently started having sex. We were both virgins beforehand. We started slow and followed advice I’ve seen on this sub. Missionary, lots of lube, and didn’t push it when she was in pain. It took us several attempts for her to be less tight and for her to learn to relax. Now we can do it in missionary with no pain and its great for both of us. However, we have started trying different positions and she feels pain again. We’ve tried doggy and pronebone and I am barely inside of her before she feels pain. I am not particularly large either (about 5 in.) We both assumed that after she loosened up in missionary, that she would be loose for everything, but do we have to do the same loosening up process for every new position? Is that normal or could we be doing something wrong? submitted by /u/splendid_sausage [link] [comments]
My gf and I (both late 20s) just recently started having sex. We were both virgins beforehand. We started slow and followed advice I’ve seen on this sub. Missionary, lots of lube, and didn’t push it when she was in pain. It took us several attempts for her to be less tight and for her to learn to relax. Now we can do it in missionary with no pain and its great for both of us.
However, we have started trying different positions and she feels pain again. We’ve tried doggy and pronebone and I am barely inside of her before she feels pain. I am not particularly large either (about 5 in.) We both assumed that after she loosened up in missionary, that she would be loose for everything, but do we have to do the same loosening up process for every new position? Is that normal or could we be doing something wrong?
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