How do I initiate better with my partner? /u/BeginningAd65 Sex

My boyfriend told me I don’t really initiate much, I thought I initiated a lot, I want to make him feel the way he makes me feel when initiating, but I need some advise on how

Hi, my partner 25M and I 20F had a conversation the other day about our sexual life. I had asked if everything was okay with him because it had been 6 days without any sex. I had tried to initiate 6 days before but he wasn’t feeling it, and took my hand off his D. I didn’t want him to feel forced so I decided to then wait till he initiated so I know he wants to.. he laughed and said he’s fine he’s just been waiting for me to initiate and I hadn’t so he just assumed I hadn’t been in the mood for a few days. I told him I tried to initiate and he didn’t even know when. He said I never initiate it, and I told him that I try to initiate nearly every day, but he usually ignores it and initiates with me like an hour later when I decide to leave him alone because he’s not responding to it.. I asked him what I can do to initiate with him if what I’m doing isn’t doing anything for him. He said that for example kissing his neck, holding a kiss a bit longer, outright telling him let’s have sex. He asked me what I usually do so he can look out for it next time. I said that I generally do kiss his neck, try and pull him in for more kisses, sit on his lap and cuddle into him more, but he said he didn’t notice that was me trying to initiate (I will be honest in saying I do those things constantly throughout the day every day so maybe it is hard to differentiate when I’m just showing him love and trying to initiate sex) We have a comfortable relationship and generally communicate well, so we concluded the conversation both happy, me agreeing to try and initiate more and make it more obvious, and him communicating more what turns him on. We have been fine and I think I’ve been initiating this week?? The reason I’m here asking strangers for advise, is that I thought I initiated a lot before, but apparently I didn’t, I’m asking to make sure I’m not being delusional and that I am actually initiating it. I also wanted to ask what else I could do to get him in the mood, he knows exactly how to get me every time, I worry I’m not as good at building the anticipation with him, making him horny and teasing him first, I just don’t know what to do. I love when he puts me in the mood, when he teases me first and makes me desperate for it, I want to make him feel like that but I don’t want to ask him because I want to surprise him and I feel like asking makes it less exciting for him. Any advise would be appreciated 🙂

Basically, how do I make my boyfriend horny and tease him more and make obvious that I’m trying to initiate

Ps: please don’t make me feel any more silly lol I already feel ridiculous asking advise on something I thought I was good at, I’m aware I am asking about sex as a literal 20 year old adult but gotta do what I gotta do 😭😭😂

My boyfriend told me I don’t really initiate much, I thought I initiated a lot, I want to make him feel the way he makes me feel when initiating, but I need some advise on how

Hi, my partner 25M and I 20F had a conversation the other day about our sexual life. I had asked if everything was okay with him because it had been 6 days without any sex. I had tried to initiate 6 days before but he wasn’t feeling it, and took my hand off his D. I didn’t want him to feel forced so I decided to then wait till he initiated so I know he wants to.. he laughed and said he’s fine he’s just been waiting for me to initiate and I hadn’t so he just assumed I hadn’t been in the mood for a few days. I told him I tried to initiate and he didn’t even know when. He said I never initiate it, and I told him that I try to initiate nearly every day, but he usually ignores it and initiates with me like an hour later when I decide to leave him alone because he’s not responding to it.. I asked him what I can do to initiate with him if what I’m doing isn’t doing anything for him. He said that for example kissing his neck, holding a kiss a bit longer, outright telling him let’s have sex. He asked me what I usually do so he can look out for it next time. I said that I generally do kiss his neck, try and pull him in for more kisses, sit on his lap and cuddle into him more, but he said he didn’t notice that was me trying to initiate (I will be honest in saying I do those things constantly throughout the day every day so maybe it is hard to differentiate when I’m just showing him love and trying to initiate sex) We have a comfortable relationship and generally communicate well, so we concluded the conversation both happy, me agreeing to try and initiate more and make it more obvious, and him communicating more what turns him on. We have been fine and I think I’ve been initiating this week?? The reason I’m here asking strangers for advise, is that I thought I initiated a lot before, but apparently I didn’t, I’m asking to make sure I’m not being delusional and that I am actually initiating it. I also wanted to ask what else I could do to get him in the mood, he knows exactly how to get me every time, I worry I’m not as good at building the anticipation with him, making him horny and teasing him first, I just don’t know what to do. I love when he puts me in the mood, when he teases me first and makes me desperate for it, I want to make him feel like that but I don’t want to ask him because I want to surprise him and I feel like asking makes it less exciting for him. Any advise would be appreciated 🙂

Basically, how do I make my boyfriend horny and tease him more and make obvious that I’m trying to initiate

Ps: please don’t make me feel any more silly lol I already feel ridiculous asking advise on something I thought I was good at, I’m aware I am asking about sex as a literal 20 year old adult but gotta do what I gotta do 😭😭😂