I’m normally a pretty modest person, i normally hate attention/sexualization. My body count is still on one hand. and I never post sexual or bikini photos on social media. Unfortunately I am cursed with an adoration for exhibitionism! The problem is, I feel lots of shame and hatred for myself when doing this, along with having some hypersexuality (esp bc i end up going for more reserved/conservative men to date)
I’m not into having sex with people randomly nor into posting nudes online (getting shared around, or having a massive amount of people see seems stressful) I want to make smart, healthy choices for myself that will result in NOT be ashamed in the future. That being said, I feel like I caught the bug again and I haven’t been able to stop feeling this way for the past couple of days.
Is there a safe way I can take part in this, like pull my tits out in a club/flash someone when making out or should I just stop doing it all together to make sure I don’t have regrets?
edit: the reason I am hesitant is 1. because of possible regrets. I’ve only hooked up with one person but regret it a lot and 2. I think some of this could be stemming from trauma/mental health and I’m not sure if indulging it is healthy (but maybe repressing it isn’t either?)
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r/sex I’m normally a pretty modest person, i normally hate attention/sexualization. My body count is still on one hand. and I never post sexual or bikini photos on social media. Unfortunately I am cursed with an adoration for exhibitionism! The problem is, I feel lots of shame and hatred for myself when doing this, along with having some hypersexuality (esp bc i end up going for more reserved/conservative men to date) I’m not into having sex with people randomly nor into posting nudes online (getting shared around, or having a massive amount of people see seems stressful) I want to make smart, healthy choices for myself that will result in NOT be ashamed in the future. That being said, I feel like I caught the bug again and I haven’t been able to stop feeling this way for the past couple of days. Is there a safe way I can take part in this, like pull my tits out in a club/flash someone when making out or should I just stop doing it all together to make sure I don’t have regrets? edit: the reason I am hesitant is 1. because of possible regrets. I’ve only hooked up with one person but regret it a lot and 2. I think some of this could be stemming from trauma/mental health and I’m not sure if indulging it is healthy (but maybe repressing it isn’t either?) submitted by /u/mintiecreams [link] [comments]
I’m normally a pretty modest person, i normally hate attention/sexualization. My body count is still on one hand. and I never post sexual or bikini photos on social media. Unfortunately I am cursed with an adoration for exhibitionism! The problem is, I feel lots of shame and hatred for myself when doing this, along with having some hypersexuality (esp bc i end up going for more reserved/conservative men to date)
I’m not into having sex with people randomly nor into posting nudes online (getting shared around, or having a massive amount of people see seems stressful) I want to make smart, healthy choices for myself that will result in NOT be ashamed in the future. That being said, I feel like I caught the bug again and I haven’t been able to stop feeling this way for the past couple of days.
Is there a safe way I can take part in this, like pull my tits out in a club/flash someone when making out or should I just stop doing it all together to make sure I don’t have regrets?
edit: the reason I am hesitant is 1. because of possible regrets. I’ve only hooked up with one person but regret it a lot and 2. I think some of this could be stemming from trauma/mental health and I’m not sure if indulging it is healthy (but maybe repressing it isn’t either?)
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