Hi, I 22F and my partner 24M, we just moved in together after 2 years long distance while we both attended different colleges. I have a very high libido when I’m with a partner I love and I was told for 2 years how amazing he’s gonna fuck me when he sees me again and how were gonna have sexy time atleast twice a day.
And now I’m here. We’re very loving and doting and caring for each other.. but he doesn’t want sex with me ever. And it’s really hitting my self esteem as I gained about 30 pounds since id seen him (from some bipolar medication id been on for almost a year) and I’m having a hard time shedding it but am making slow progress.
Either way, he told me all these amazing things but for the first 2 days we had sex twice a day. Then a week went buy where he kept telling me no.. and I listen. I back off. But it’s really making me feel ugly.. and I know that’s an internal problem I have to tackle but I can’t help it right now. And then we had sex again but it felt more like pity sex to get me to stop asking. And then again none for almost 2 weeks…
We slept together last night (though again it felt like a chore for him) and he told me no again for today. I just.. he’s entitled to not want sex. But I don’t know if I would’ve entered a relationship with someone with such a low drive because its just not realistic for me.. and he had initially put himself out there as a very strong, high sex drive and interest in new and fun things. And he’s just not…
I don’t want him to feel like he needs to sleep with me but got it makes me feel disgusting and unwanted and I’m struggling with that.
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r/sex Hi, I 22F and my partner 24M, we just moved in together after 2 years long distance while we both attended different colleges. I have a very high libido when I’m with a partner I love and I was told for 2 years how amazing he’s gonna fuck me when he sees me again and how were gonna have sexy time atleast twice a day. And now I’m here. We’re very loving and doting and caring for each other.. but he doesn’t want sex with me ever. And it’s really hitting my self esteem as I gained about 30 pounds since id seen him (from some bipolar medication id been on for almost a year) and I’m having a hard time shedding it but am making slow progress. Either way, he told me all these amazing things but for the first 2 days we had sex twice a day. Then a week went buy where he kept telling me no.. and I listen. I back off. But it’s really making me feel ugly.. and I know that’s an internal problem I have to tackle but I can’t help it right now. And then we had sex again but it felt more like pity sex to get me to stop asking. And then again none for almost 2 weeks… We slept together last night (though again it felt like a chore for him) and he told me no again for today. I just.. he’s entitled to not want sex. But I don’t know if I would’ve entered a relationship with someone with such a low drive because its just not realistic for me.. and he had initially put himself out there as a very strong, high sex drive and interest in new and fun things. And he’s just not… I don’t want him to feel like he needs to sleep with me but got it makes me feel disgusting and unwanted and I’m struggling with that. submitted by /u/Seleetoten [link] [comments]
Hi, I 22F and my partner 24M, we just moved in together after 2 years long distance while we both attended different colleges. I have a very high libido when I’m with a partner I love and I was told for 2 years how amazing he’s gonna fuck me when he sees me again and how were gonna have sexy time atleast twice a day.
And now I’m here. We’re very loving and doting and caring for each other.. but he doesn’t want sex with me ever. And it’s really hitting my self esteem as I gained about 30 pounds since id seen him (from some bipolar medication id been on for almost a year) and I’m having a hard time shedding it but am making slow progress.
Either way, he told me all these amazing things but for the first 2 days we had sex twice a day. Then a week went buy where he kept telling me no.. and I listen. I back off. But it’s really making me feel ugly.. and I know that’s an internal problem I have to tackle but I can’t help it right now. And then we had sex again but it felt more like pity sex to get me to stop asking. And then again none for almost 2 weeks…
We slept together last night (though again it felt like a chore for him) and he told me no again for today. I just.. he’s entitled to not want sex. But I don’t know if I would’ve entered a relationship with someone with such a low drive because its just not realistic for me.. and he had initially put himself out there as a very strong, high sex drive and interest in new and fun things. And he’s just not…
I don’t want him to feel like he needs to sleep with me but got it makes me feel disgusting and unwanted and I’m struggling with that.
submitted by /u/Seleetoten
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