I know, the title sounds absolutely chaotic. I’m not here to talk down about sex by any means but I just wanted to say it helped me realize some things.
I still personally don’t ‘like’ it. Don’t need it. I don’t care for it but I (24F) found a partner (33M) highly similar although he does like sex. I decided that he’d be my first and well… not the worst decision.
He’s wasn’t very experienced I’m assuming, only having two partners in the past short term. But according to him, he has had his best sex with me. I also have no libido, but find masturbating occasionally pleasant. Meanwhile, when I met him, he was masturbating 3 times a day.
He feels a deepening emotional connection from it and I feel nothing. Aftercare is amazing though, I cuddle him, and kiss him and curl up into him and bury my face in his chest. And it’s probably my favorite part.
He can go without it but when I’m over his place, I encourage the behavior to have sex with me instead of masturbating. I find his movements cute. I adore the little things he does and his playful dominance. I like being marked up by him.
My brain doesn’t register it as anything for me. Sometimes I go silent by accident because I’m not sure what to do but he’s helping me get better at it.
Lately I’ve been more ambitious. He knows how I feel about sex and how I view it. He doesn’t mind at all, but I had started making moves just to see his expressions. I enjoy his bodily anatomy a lot. He’s soft and fluffy. I rub my face against him often, and sometimes against his bulge. I meow and purr and look up at him with innocent eyes. He knows even if I’m not sexually attracted to him, or want him sexually, I’m still in love with him.
When he gets soft I play with his cock, gently just poking it, and telling him how much I adore his body as a whole. I’m really just a curious cat.
I remember not long after we first met, I watched him masturbate. I didn’t care much for what he was doing with his hand but I got lost in his blue eyes while we kissed. The way he looked when he closed his eyes too, and the small, heavy breaths… he looked blissful. I was so distracted by the look on his face that I didn’t even care to see how big his dick was.
We have sex daily when I’m there, unprotected and him finishing in me every time. Despite not really liking sex, I feel like I found the right person to do it with. I never expected to feel this safe and secure when I had it and even thought I’d wait longer than I did with him. I wouldn’t have done this for anyone else.
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r/sex I know, the title sounds absolutely chaotic. I’m not here to talk down about sex by any means but I just wanted to say it helped me realize some things. I still personally don’t ‘like’ it. Don’t need it. I don’t care for it but I (24F) found a partner (33M) highly similar although he does like sex. I decided that he’d be my first and well… not the worst decision. He’s wasn’t very experienced I’m assuming, only having two partners in the past short term. But according to him, he has had his best sex with me. I also have no libido, but find masturbating occasionally pleasant. Meanwhile, when I met him, he was masturbating 3 times a day. He feels a deepening emotional connection from it and I feel nothing. Aftercare is amazing though, I cuddle him, and kiss him and curl up into him and bury my face in his chest. And it’s probably my favorite part. He can go without it but when I’m over his place, I encourage the behavior to have sex with me instead of masturbating. I find his movements cute. I adore the little things he does and his playful dominance. I like being marked up by him. My brain doesn’t register it as anything for me. Sometimes I go silent by accident because I’m not sure what to do but he’s helping me get better at it. Lately I’ve been more ambitious. He knows how I feel about sex and how I view it. He doesn’t mind at all, but I had started making moves just to see his expressions. I enjoy his bodily anatomy a lot. He’s soft and fluffy. I rub my face against him often, and sometimes against his bulge. I meow and purr and look up at him with innocent eyes. He knows even if I’m not sexually attracted to him, or want him sexually, I’m still in love with him. When he gets soft I play with his cock, gently just poking it, and telling him how much I adore his body as a whole. I’m really just a curious cat. I remember not long after we first met, I watched him masturbate. I didn’t care much for what he was doing with his hand but I got lost in his blue eyes while we kissed. The way he looked when he closed his eyes too, and the small, heavy breaths… he looked blissful. I was so distracted by the look on his face that I didn’t even care to see how big his dick was. We have sex daily when I’m there, unprotected and him finishing in me every time. Despite not really liking sex, I feel like I found the right person to do it with. I never expected to feel this safe and secure when I had it and even thought I’d wait longer than I did with him. I wouldn’t have done this for anyone else. submitted by /u/throwawayventifrappe [link] [comments]
I know, the title sounds absolutely chaotic. I’m not here to talk down about sex by any means but I just wanted to say it helped me realize some things.
I still personally don’t ‘like’ it. Don’t need it. I don’t care for it but I (24F) found a partner (33M) highly similar although he does like sex. I decided that he’d be my first and well… not the worst decision.
He’s wasn’t very experienced I’m assuming, only having two partners in the past short term. But according to him, he has had his best sex with me. I also have no libido, but find masturbating occasionally pleasant. Meanwhile, when I met him, he was masturbating 3 times a day.
He feels a deepening emotional connection from it and I feel nothing. Aftercare is amazing though, I cuddle him, and kiss him and curl up into him and bury my face in his chest. And it’s probably my favorite part.
He can go without it but when I’m over his place, I encourage the behavior to have sex with me instead of masturbating. I find his movements cute. I adore the little things he does and his playful dominance. I like being marked up by him.
My brain doesn’t register it as anything for me. Sometimes I go silent by accident because I’m not sure what to do but he’s helping me get better at it.
Lately I’ve been more ambitious. He knows how I feel about sex and how I view it. He doesn’t mind at all, but I had started making moves just to see his expressions. I enjoy his bodily anatomy a lot. He’s soft and fluffy. I rub my face against him often, and sometimes against his bulge. I meow and purr and look up at him with innocent eyes. He knows even if I’m not sexually attracted to him, or want him sexually, I’m still in love with him.
When he gets soft I play with his cock, gently just poking it, and telling him how much I adore his body as a whole. I’m really just a curious cat.
I remember not long after we first met, I watched him masturbate. I didn’t care much for what he was doing with his hand but I got lost in his blue eyes while we kissed. The way he looked when he closed his eyes too, and the small, heavy breaths… he looked blissful. I was so distracted by the look on his face that I didn’t even care to see how big his dick was.
We have sex daily when I’m there, unprotected and him finishing in me every time. Despite not really liking sex, I feel like I found the right person to do it with. I never expected to feel this safe and secure when I had it and even thought I’d wait longer than I did with him. I wouldn’t have done this for anyone else.
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