I always thought I was a high libido male and would normally have sex daily with my previous girlfriends since I was in my 20s. The only times I would not be having sex would be when I was single, away from girlfriends, girlfriends not wanting it or during their periods etc. Basically I was always ready and sometimes too much even for my high libido girlfriends. Sex would also generally last around 15-45 mins in total from foreplay to finishing depending on the mood. But generally never more than an hr.
Anyway I met this new girl a few months ago and everything is great however i am starting to realize that I might potentially not be able to handle her for the long term as her sex drive is steadily going overkill. Initially she told me that her previous relationships sex was pretty minimal (likes once a month) as her first boyfriend would finish in seconds and her second boyfriend she was not attracted to at all but stayed with him out of convenience. So in my mind I thought great, I am no spring chicken myself however I can definitely handle her as she seems to be lower libido than me so she can control me and get it when she wants which I am perfectly OK with. I prefer my partner to come to me when they want sex as I hate to put my girlfriends in the awkward position to turn me down.
So the first few months of dating the sex was pretty infrequent as we didn’t see each other that often however since the last 2 months she has pretty much moved into my place and I kid you not, we are having sex every single day and sometimes twice a day with times >1hr and I don’t think my body can take it anymore. It’s not an age thing either as I don’t think that even in my peak (mid 20s) I would be able to maintain such a routine. I actually almost fainted one time in the shower as it was just not ending and the steam from the water got to my head.
Anyway how do I delicately approach this subject to let her know that I love being with her but I just need a break in terms of the sex part as it is too much. She has a bit of a temper along with low self esteem so I know it will be a challenging conversation but honestly I didn’t sign up for this and I feel like I’ve been blindsided.
tldr: gf has much higher sex drive then anticipated and I can’t handle it for long term
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r/sex I always thought I was a high libido male and would normally have sex daily with my previous girlfriends since I was in my 20s. The only times I would not be having sex would be when I was single, away from girlfriends, girlfriends not wanting it or during their periods etc. Basically I was always ready and sometimes too much even for my high libido girlfriends. Sex would also generally last around 15-45 mins in total from foreplay to finishing depending on the mood. But generally never more than an hr. Anyway I met this new girl a few months ago and everything is great however i am starting to realize that I might potentially not be able to handle her for the long term as her sex drive is steadily going overkill. Initially she told me that her previous relationships sex was pretty minimal (likes once a month) as her first boyfriend would finish in seconds and her second boyfriend she was not attracted to at all but stayed with him out of convenience. So in my mind I thought great, I am no spring chicken myself however I can definitely handle her as she seems to be lower libido than me so she can control me and get it when she wants which I am perfectly OK with. I prefer my partner to come to me when they want sex as I hate to put my girlfriends in the awkward position to turn me down. So the first few months of dating the sex was pretty infrequent as we didn’t see each other that often however since the last 2 months she has pretty much moved into my place and I kid you not, we are having sex every single day and sometimes twice a day with times >1hr and I don’t think my body can take it anymore. It’s not an age thing either as I don’t think that even in my peak (mid 20s) I would be able to maintain such a routine. I actually almost fainted one time in the shower as it was just not ending and the steam from the water got to my head. Anyway how do I delicately approach this subject to let her know that I love being with her but I just need a break in terms of the sex part as it is too much. She has a bit of a temper along with low self esteem so I know it will be a challenging conversation but honestly I didn’t sign up for this and I feel like I’ve been blindsided. tldr: gf has much higher sex drive then anticipated and I can’t handle it for long term submitted by /u/iamexercised [link] [comments]
I always thought I was a high libido male and would normally have sex daily with my previous girlfriends since I was in my 20s. The only times I would not be having sex would be when I was single, away from girlfriends, girlfriends not wanting it or during their periods etc. Basically I was always ready and sometimes too much even for my high libido girlfriends. Sex would also generally last around 15-45 mins in total from foreplay to finishing depending on the mood. But generally never more than an hr.
Anyway I met this new girl a few months ago and everything is great however i am starting to realize that I might potentially not be able to handle her for the long term as her sex drive is steadily going overkill. Initially she told me that her previous relationships sex was pretty minimal (likes once a month) as her first boyfriend would finish in seconds and her second boyfriend she was not attracted to at all but stayed with him out of convenience. So in my mind I thought great, I am no spring chicken myself however I can definitely handle her as she seems to be lower libido than me so she can control me and get it when she wants which I am perfectly OK with. I prefer my partner to come to me when they want sex as I hate to put my girlfriends in the awkward position to turn me down.
So the first few months of dating the sex was pretty infrequent as we didn’t see each other that often however since the last 2 months she has pretty much moved into my place and I kid you not, we are having sex every single day and sometimes twice a day with times >1hr and I don’t think my body can take it anymore. It’s not an age thing either as I don’t think that even in my peak (mid 20s) I would be able to maintain such a routine. I actually almost fainted one time in the shower as it was just not ending and the steam from the water got to my head.
Anyway how do I delicately approach this subject to let her know that I love being with her but I just need a break in terms of the sex part as it is too much. She has a bit of a temper along with low self esteem so I know it will be a challenging conversation but honestly I didn’t sign up for this and I feel like I’ve been blindsided.
tldr: gf has much higher sex drive then anticipated and I can’t handle it for long term
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