hello, just made an account for this. my boyfriend and i (21f/25m) have been having issues because i have “cuts” on the entrance on my vagina which makes it really painful to have sex. i don’t even know how it happened, i randomly started feeling pain around 2 weeks ago. it stings when i pee, shower or wipe (i saw tiny drops of blood once).
i’ve asked my bf to check if he sees something but he says he doesn’t. because of that, we can’t really have sex the way we usually do and he’s told me many times that he’s sexually frustrated / feels emotionally neglected. we do other things, but he’s not really satisfied. it really sucks for the both of us, so i am asking : has anyone had this issue? if so how long did it take for the discomfort/pain to stop? what can you do when your partner is sexually frustrated but you can’t really have sex?
i am not trying to act like he’s the only one who misses sex, i do too, but i think it’s actually taking a toll on our relationship. i can feel him pulling away from me. i think it’s because he doesn’t really believe there’s something wrong? i have asked him to check for cuts a couple of times, and each time, he says that he doesn’t see anything. anyway, thank you in advance for the advice!
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r/sex hello, just made an account for this. my boyfriend and i (21f/25m) have been having issues because i have “cuts” on the entrance on my vagina which makes it really painful to have sex. i don’t even know how it happened, i randomly started feeling pain around 2 weeks ago. it stings when i pee, shower or wipe (i saw tiny drops of blood once). i’ve asked my bf to check if he sees something but he says he doesn’t. because of that, we can’t really have sex the way we usually do and he’s told me many times that he’s sexually frustrated / feels emotionally neglected. we do other things, but he’s not really satisfied. it really sucks for the both of us, so i am asking : has anyone had this issue? if so how long did it take for the discomfort/pain to stop? what can you do when your partner is sexually frustrated but you can’t really have sex? i am not trying to act like he’s the only one who misses sex, i do too, but i think it’s actually taking a toll on our relationship. i can feel him pulling away from me. i think it’s because he doesn’t really believe there’s something wrong? i have asked him to check for cuts a couple of times, and each time, he says that he doesn’t see anything. anyway, thank you in advance for the advice! submitted by /u/TechnicalGoal499 [link] [comments]
hello, just made an account for this. my boyfriend and i (21f/25m) have been having issues because i have “cuts” on the entrance on my vagina which makes it really painful to have sex. i don’t even know how it happened, i randomly started feeling pain around 2 weeks ago. it stings when i pee, shower or wipe (i saw tiny drops of blood once).
i’ve asked my bf to check if he sees something but he says he doesn’t. because of that, we can’t really have sex the way we usually do and he’s told me many times that he’s sexually frustrated / feels emotionally neglected. we do other things, but he’s not really satisfied. it really sucks for the both of us, so i am asking : has anyone had this issue? if so how long did it take for the discomfort/pain to stop? what can you do when your partner is sexually frustrated but you can’t really have sex?
i am not trying to act like he’s the only one who misses sex, i do too, but i think it’s actually taking a toll on our relationship. i can feel him pulling away from me. i think it’s because he doesn’t really believe there’s something wrong? i have asked him to check for cuts a couple of times, and each time, he says that he doesn’t see anything. anyway, thank you in advance for the advice!
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