for backstory; my bf and i have been together for nearly a year. i knew from the first time that the sex wasn’t good but everything online told me that it would get better with time and learning each other so i had hope. well we’re nearing a year and he still only lasts like 2 minutes. my ex used to last 30 min to an hour and gave me multiple orgasms in a session just from PIV, so this situation is making me miss him which i feel bad about, especially since my current treats me so much better than my ex did. but lately i’ve been fantasizing about going back to my ex and i feel like i’ve lived long enough to see myself become the villian type shit.
so i’m kinda just wondering what would you guys do in this situation. is it doomed? are we just not compatible in the bedroom? i love him in every other way like he is the sweetest and most thoughtful guy ever. but i just don’t enjoy the sex and it’s lessening my attraction big time, like i don’t know if i could marry him knowing that the sex will always be mid….. i don’t want to leave but i find myself wishing i could change certain things about him and it makes me feel like a terrible person and that i should just leave so i don’t hurt him worse in the end…. help someone pls i know y’all are gonna be mean but maybe i need to hear it idk 🙁 also if you saw this before i deleted it and switched to my throwaway account no you didn’t
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r/sex for backstory; my bf and i have been together for nearly a year. i knew from the first time that the sex wasn’t good but everything online told me that it would get better with time and learning each other so i had hope. well we’re nearing a year and he still only lasts like 2 minutes. my ex used to last 30 min to an hour and gave me multiple orgasms in a session just from PIV, so this situation is making me miss him which i feel bad about, especially since my current treats me so much better than my ex did. but lately i’ve been fantasizing about going back to my ex and i feel like i’ve lived long enough to see myself become the villian type shit. so i’m kinda just wondering what would you guys do in this situation. is it doomed? are we just not compatible in the bedroom? i love him in every other way like he is the sweetest and most thoughtful guy ever. but i just don’t enjoy the sex and it’s lessening my attraction big time, like i don’t know if i could marry him knowing that the sex will always be mid….. i don’t want to leave but i find myself wishing i could change certain things about him and it makes me feel like a terrible person and that i should just leave so i don’t hurt him worse in the end…. help someone pls i know y’all are gonna be mean but maybe i need to hear it idk 🙁 also if you saw this before i deleted it and switched to my throwaway account no you didn’t submitted by /u/throwawayy22024 [link] [comments]
for backstory; my bf and i have been together for nearly a year. i knew from the first time that the sex wasn’t good but everything online told me that it would get better with time and learning each other so i had hope. well we’re nearing a year and he still only lasts like 2 minutes. my ex used to last 30 min to an hour and gave me multiple orgasms in a session just from PIV, so this situation is making me miss him which i feel bad about, especially since my current treats me so much better than my ex did. but lately i’ve been fantasizing about going back to my ex and i feel like i’ve lived long enough to see myself become the villian type shit.
so i’m kinda just wondering what would you guys do in this situation. is it doomed? are we just not compatible in the bedroom? i love him in every other way like he is the sweetest and most thoughtful guy ever. but i just don’t enjoy the sex and it’s lessening my attraction big time, like i don’t know if i could marry him knowing that the sex will always be mid….. i don’t want to leave but i find myself wishing i could change certain things about him and it makes me feel like a terrible person and that i should just leave so i don’t hurt him worse in the end…. help someone pls i know y’all are gonna be mean but maybe i need to hear it idk 🙁 also if you saw this before i deleted it and switched to my throwaway account no you didn’t
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