New boyfriend and we’ve been seeing each other for a few months. We’ve only had sex a handful of times.
The first few times that we tried to have sex, he would get hard and then as soon as it was time to put it inside of me, he would go soft. He apologised and said he’s really embarrassed and said he thinks it’s because he’s really nervous.
He went to the GP and got some pills for it and it worked so we finally had sex successfully… but he didn’t finish. He just randomly stopped, but I didn’t mention it because I don’t want to put more pressure on him.
We had sex again last night, and the same thing happened. I asked him “did you finish inside of me?” And he said “actually no, I didn’t finish at all. I felt like I was going to, but I just stopped” I asked him why he stopped and he said he just got into his head again and started feeling anxiety. He said “you’re just so beautiful, and I’m just…. Me. I feel so nervous when we have sex”
How can I help him? The sex only goes for 5 minutes or less before he stops altogether. He initiates every time so I’m not pressuring him to have sex or anything like that.
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r/sex New boyfriend and we’ve been seeing each other for a few months. We’ve only had sex a handful of times. The first few times that we tried to have sex, he would get hard and then as soon as it was time to put it inside of me, he would go soft. He apologised and said he’s really embarrassed and said he thinks it’s because he’s really nervous. He went to the GP and got some pills for it and it worked so we finally had sex successfully… but he didn’t finish. He just randomly stopped, but I didn’t mention it because I don’t want to put more pressure on him. We had sex again last night, and the same thing happened. I asked him “did you finish inside of me?” And he said “actually no, I didn’t finish at all. I felt like I was going to, but I just stopped” I asked him why he stopped and he said he just got into his head again and started feeling anxiety. He said “you’re just so beautiful, and I’m just…. Me. I feel so nervous when we have sex” How can I help him? The sex only goes for 5 minutes or less before he stops altogether. He initiates every time so I’m not pressuring him to have sex or anything like that. submitted by /u/lillianna230 [link] [comments]
New boyfriend and we’ve been seeing each other for a few months. We’ve only had sex a handful of times.
The first few times that we tried to have sex, he would get hard and then as soon as it was time to put it inside of me, he would go soft. He apologised and said he’s really embarrassed and said he thinks it’s because he’s really nervous.
He went to the GP and got some pills for it and it worked so we finally had sex successfully… but he didn’t finish. He just randomly stopped, but I didn’t mention it because I don’t want to put more pressure on him.
We had sex again last night, and the same thing happened. I asked him “did you finish inside of me?” And he said “actually no, I didn’t finish at all. I felt like I was going to, but I just stopped” I asked him why he stopped and he said he just got into his head again and started feeling anxiety. He said “you’re just so beautiful, and I’m just…. Me. I feel so nervous when we have sex”
How can I help him? The sex only goes for 5 minutes or less before he stops altogether. He initiates every time so I’m not pressuring him to have sex or anything like that.
submitted by /u/lillianna230
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