I (21F) have never had sex with another person, but have been masturbating for years. Yet I’ve never been able to orgasm. I felt frustrated so I bought some sex toys. They feel great and there’s been many times where the pleasure has been overwhelmingly good… But whenever things feel REALLY good, I impulsively stop and take whatever it is away. It’s not something I’m choosing to do, but more like something my body does on autopilot. I feel incredibly frustrated because I WANT to orgasm, and I want to enjoy myself, but I can’t stop myself from shoving whatever I’m using away every time things get good. I don’t know what to do, and I don’t know if something’s wrong with me or if other people have had this experience? I haven’t had sex with anyone out of fear that I’ll end up doing the same thing to them and physically push them away. What do I do?
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r/sex I (21F) have never had sex with another person, but have been masturbating for years. Yet I’ve never been able to orgasm. I felt frustrated so I bought some sex toys. They feel great and there’s been many times where the pleasure has been overwhelmingly good… But whenever things feel REALLY good, I impulsively stop and take whatever it is away. It’s not something I’m choosing to do, but more like something my body does on autopilot. I feel incredibly frustrated because I WANT to orgasm, and I want to enjoy myself, but I can’t stop myself from shoving whatever I’m using away every time things get good. I don’t know what to do, and I don’t know if something’s wrong with me or if other people have had this experience? I haven’t had sex with anyone out of fear that I’ll end up doing the same thing to them and physically push them away. What do I do? submitted by /u/verycoldhottakes [link] [comments]
I (21F) have never had sex with another person, but have been masturbating for years. Yet I’ve never been able to orgasm. I felt frustrated so I bought some sex toys. They feel great and there’s been many times where the pleasure has been overwhelmingly good… But whenever things feel REALLY good, I impulsively stop and take whatever it is away. It’s not something I’m choosing to do, but more like something my body does on autopilot. I feel incredibly frustrated because I WANT to orgasm, and I want to enjoy myself, but I can’t stop myself from shoving whatever I’m using away every time things get good. I don’t know what to do, and I don’t know if something’s wrong with me or if other people have had this experience? I haven’t had sex with anyone out of fear that I’ll end up doing the same thing to them and physically push them away. What do I do?
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