Can’t seem to feel sexual desire while in a longterm relationship /u/maybememaybeno Sex

28F I have this problem where I don’t seem to feel the same kind of sexual arousal in a steady relationship as I do when I’m dating someone who doesn’t want to commit to me.

I absolutely love my partner, I’m so attracted to him. I like having sex with him but mostly because I get to be close to him and I like the physical aspect of it.

What I don’t feel is the urge to have sex with him. I don’t get wet. I don’t feel the tingles when we start getting it on like I have with casual dating partners. I guess the lust aspect is missing?

Is this normal? It’s like as soon as the anxious does he like me/doesn’t he like me phase of a relationship is over I stop having those feelings. It just feels like there is a piece missing

28F I have this problem where I don’t seem to feel the same kind of sexual arousal in a steady relationship as I do when I’m dating someone who doesn’t want to commit to me.

I absolutely love my partner, I’m so attracted to him. I like having sex with him but mostly because I get to be close to him and I like the physical aspect of it.

What I don’t feel is the urge to have sex with him. I don’t get wet. I don’t feel the tingles when we start getting it on like I have with casual dating partners. I guess the lust aspect is missing?

Is this normal? It’s like as soon as the anxious does he like me/doesn’t he like me phase of a relationship is over I stop having those feelings. It just feels like there is a piece missing