I’m in a long distance relationship and my bf recently shared he jerked off to pics of me and I didn’t know how to respond. I think I ended up saying something along the lines of ‘nice!’ and ‘yay!’
For context- I have Asperger’s. Social norms or things that would come naturally to someone or know how to act in any scenario I am not blessed with. Two previous relationships I was in didn’t last long and ended because of this as I couldn’t pick up on behaviours or cues from the guy that he was initiating intimacy or really anything or how to act in a relationship.
Near the end of the call I did tell him that it made feel good knowing that and I did like knowing. Though my mind was blank when he did initially say it and I want to be able to respond in the moment showing that I enjoy being told that. People in the past have said to just say what comes naturally to my head- but as shown above the best my brain could come up with was nice hahaha.
If your bf/partner shared the same thing, how would you respond?
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r/sex I’m in a long distance relationship and my bf recently shared he jerked off to pics of me and I didn’t know how to respond. I think I ended up saying something along the lines of ‘nice!’ and ‘yay!’ For context- I have Asperger’s. Social norms or things that would come naturally to someone or know how to act in any scenario I am not blessed with. Two previous relationships I was in didn’t last long and ended because of this as I couldn’t pick up on behaviours or cues from the guy that he was initiating intimacy or really anything or how to act in a relationship. Near the end of the call I did tell him that it made feel good knowing that and I did like knowing. Though my mind was blank when he did initially say it and I want to be able to respond in the moment showing that I enjoy being told that. People in the past have said to just say what comes naturally to my head- but as shown above the best my brain could come up with was nice hahaha. If your bf/partner shared the same thing, how would you respond? submitted by /u/burnttoast31 [link] [comments]
I’m in a long distance relationship and my bf recently shared he jerked off to pics of me and I didn’t know how to respond. I think I ended up saying something along the lines of ‘nice!’ and ‘yay!’
For context- I have Asperger’s. Social norms or things that would come naturally to someone or know how to act in any scenario I am not blessed with. Two previous relationships I was in didn’t last long and ended because of this as I couldn’t pick up on behaviours or cues from the guy that he was initiating intimacy or really anything or how to act in a relationship.
Near the end of the call I did tell him that it made feel good knowing that and I did like knowing. Though my mind was blank when he did initially say it and I want to be able to respond in the moment showing that I enjoy being told that. People in the past have said to just say what comes naturally to my head- but as shown above the best my brain could come up with was nice hahaha.
If your bf/partner shared the same thing, how would you respond?
submitted by /u/burnttoast31
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