A year ago I started a relationship with a girl. I’m 17 and she’s 18. We started having a sexual life 3 months after dating and everything was going well until she started taking birth control pills. From that moment on, her libido dropped to the point of Having sex once every month or month and a half was like that for a few months until she decided to stop taking contraceptives but she continued to have a low libido. We have talked about it and she always tells me that she does feel like it but she wants me to be the one to carry it. initiative but I think It’s not what she really thinks because many times when I try something she doesn’t want to and simply tells me that she doesn’t feel like it even when we “plan” to have sex on a specific day when the time comes she doesn’t want to either, I feel bad because when we have sex I think we only have relationships because I have put pressure on her, so to speak, when I send her some “spicy” tiktok or try to start a “spicy” conversation, she plays along with me a little and then changes the subject completely or doesn’t tell me at all. He plays along and responds with a laugh and I don’t know what to do because I don’t feel desired by her.
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r/sex A year ago I started a relationship with a girl. I’m 17 and she’s 18. We started having a sexual life 3 months after dating and everything was going well until she started taking birth control pills. From that moment on, her libido dropped to the point of Having sex once every month or month and a half was like that for a few months until she decided to stop taking contraceptives but she continued to have a low libido. We have talked about it and she always tells me that she does feel like it but she wants me to be the one to carry it. initiative but I think It’s not what she really thinks because many times when I try something she doesn’t want to and simply tells me that she doesn’t feel like it even when we “plan” to have sex on a specific day when the time comes she doesn’t want to either, I feel bad because when we have sex I think we only have relationships because I have put pressure on her, so to speak, when I send her some “spicy” tiktok or try to start a “spicy” conversation, she plays along with me a little and then changes the subject completely or doesn’t tell me at all. He plays along and responds with a laugh and I don’t know what to do because I don’t feel desired by her. submitted by /u/TowelEasy3853 [link] [comments]
A year ago I started a relationship with a girl. I’m 17 and she’s 18. We started having a sexual life 3 months after dating and everything was going well until she started taking birth control pills. From that moment on, her libido dropped to the point of Having sex once every month or month and a half was like that for a few months until she decided to stop taking contraceptives but she continued to have a low libido. We have talked about it and she always tells me that she does feel like it but she wants me to be the one to carry it. initiative but I think It’s not what she really thinks because many times when I try something she doesn’t want to and simply tells me that she doesn’t feel like it even when we “plan” to have sex on a specific day when the time comes she doesn’t want to either, I feel bad because when we have sex I think we only have relationships because I have put pressure on her, so to speak, when I send her some “spicy” tiktok or try to start a “spicy” conversation, she plays along with me a little and then changes the subject completely or doesn’t tell me at all. He plays along and responds with a laugh and I don’t know what to do because I don’t feel desired by her.
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