How do i create sexual tension?? /u/WorldlinessGold8586 Sex

I 18m and my gf 18f have been dating for over a year.So far everything has been perfect and i can confidently say that she’s the one.

In the past year I’ve learned so much about having a healthy relationship because of her and how to communicate my feelings.Shes by far my longest and the best relationship I’ve had.

We do everything a normal couple our age does, We go out,come over to each others place,watch movies,anime,play video games,cuddle and i love it.

The only part thats lacking is sexual intimacy,i haven’t talked to her about it because i don’t know how to bring it up but i realised that whenever she has pent up sexual tension we do something,which happens maybe once a month.

In the one year we’ve been together i made her orgazm a few dozen times but she has never made me orgasm.The moment she orgasms its like a switch turns and then no sexual intimacy for a few weeks.I haven’t even ever gotten a hj or a bj,and im 18.

I dont know how to intimate any sexual intimacy or how to build sexual tension,and i think that’s the problem.Im my gfs first boyfriend and she initiates by placing my hand on her parts or just by grabbing my junk.For me personally thats enough to turn me on but for her its a different story,i tried to initiate the same way she does,tried making out,playing with her hair and i just can’t get the hang of it.

Im sorry for the lengthy post but i have noone to ask this and im really inexperienced,i hope you guys can give me a few tips.

I 18m and my gf 18f have been dating for over a year.So far everything has been perfect and i can confidently say that she’s the one.

In the past year I’ve learned so much about having a healthy relationship because of her and how to communicate my feelings.Shes by far my longest and the best relationship I’ve had.

We do everything a normal couple our age does, We go out,come over to each others place,watch movies,anime,play video games,cuddle and i love it.

The only part thats lacking is sexual intimacy,i haven’t talked to her about it because i don’t know how to bring it up but i realised that whenever she has pent up sexual tension we do something,which happens maybe once a month.

In the one year we’ve been together i made her orgazm a few dozen times but she has never made me orgasm.The moment she orgasms its like a switch turns and then no sexual intimacy for a few weeks.I haven’t even ever gotten a hj or a bj,and im 18.

I dont know how to intimate any sexual intimacy or how to build sexual tension,and i think that’s the problem.Im my gfs first boyfriend and she initiates by placing my hand on her parts or just by grabbing my junk.For me personally thats enough to turn me on but for her its a different story,i tried to initiate the same way she does,tried making out,playing with her hair and i just can’t get the hang of it.

Im sorry for the lengthy post but i have noone to ask this and im really inexperienced,i hope you guys can give me a few tips.