How to become comfortable with bisexuality and kink? /u/Wild-Butterscotch874 Sex

I’m a 45 year old man, married to a bisexual woman and we have two kids. I use the bisexual label because I am primarily attracted to women both romantically and physically and I also have an entire universe of other sexual interests that include homosexuality, cross-dressing, anal play, and using household objects to pinch my nipples and be inserted in my anus.

I’m ashamed of my bisexual thoughts and fantasies and of my kinks. I work with a therapist, I joined a group therapy course for bisexuals, and I discuss this all openly with my wife. However, my sexual thoughts are a swirling and chaotic kaleidoscope of breasts, thighs, penises, lips, and hot breath and I don’t know where I am and how to navigate my primal erotic desire.

I’m a 45 year old man, married to a bisexual woman and we have two kids. I use the bisexual label because I am primarily attracted to women both romantically and physically and I also have an entire universe of other sexual interests that include homosexuality, cross-dressing, anal play, and using household objects to pinch my nipples and be inserted in my anus.

I’m ashamed of my bisexual thoughts and fantasies and of my kinks. I work with a therapist, I joined a group therapy course for bisexuals, and I discuss this all openly with my wife. However, my sexual thoughts are a swirling and chaotic kaleidoscope of breasts, thighs, penises, lips, and hot breath and I don’t know where I am and how to navigate my primal erotic desire.