Need advice: gf has had poop on underwear multiple times /u/Sufficient-Ad-5130 Sex

I’ve been with my girlfriend since the holidays and we recently started having sex. The first time we did it I noticed she had a lot of shit stains on her thong strap. It wasn’t fresh, but rather old shit stains. I was grossed out but put it out of my mind and we had sex. It was heat of the moment so I gave her the benefit of the doubt and figured because she wasn’t expecting us to have sex she didn’t feel the need to be super clean.

Since then we’ve had sex about 10 times and most of the time it’s been the same thing – shit stains on her various underwear. I’ve gotten used to it and try not to look yet I always do.

Last night was different. She took off her thong and the smell was atrocious. This time it wasn’t shit stains but rather wet fresh shit on her thong. I held my breath and we finished really fast.

She could tell things were different and she asked me ‘what’s wrong?’ I didn’t have the heart to mention the shit thing so I told her it was a long day and I’m just exhausted.

If this was a one-off isolated thing then whatever. But shit stains most of the time and now fresh wet shit is too much. I don’t know how to bring this up without offending her.

(And no, this isn’t a post about being grossed out that women take shits or fart. And also, these are spotting stains from her period. These are straight up shit stains/wet shit. I’m just trying to figure out how to bring up a topic that most people, especially women, would be grossed out by.)

I’ve been with my girlfriend since the holidays and we recently started having sex. The first time we did it I noticed she had a lot of shit stains on her thong strap. It wasn’t fresh, but rather old shit stains. I was grossed out but put it out of my mind and we had sex. It was heat of the moment so I gave her the benefit of the doubt and figured because she wasn’t expecting us to have sex she didn’t feel the need to be super clean.

Since then we’ve had sex about 10 times and most of the time it’s been the same thing – shit stains on her various underwear. I’ve gotten used to it and try not to look yet I always do.

Last night was different. She took off her thong and the smell was atrocious. This time it wasn’t shit stains but rather wet fresh shit on her thong. I held my breath and we finished really fast.

She could tell things were different and she asked me ‘what’s wrong?’ I didn’t have the heart to mention the shit thing so I told her it was a long day and I’m just exhausted.

If this was a one-off isolated thing then whatever. But shit stains most of the time and now fresh wet shit is too much. I don’t know how to bring this up without offending her.

(And no, this isn’t a post about being grossed out that women take shits or fart. And also, these are spotting stains from her period. These are straight up shit stains/wet shit. I’m just trying to figure out how to bring up a topic that most people, especially women, would be grossed out by.)