My wife (F36) and I (M36) are heading to Amsterdam, are sex shows and swingers clubs actually any good? /u/itsallgonefubar Sex

My misses and I are discussing going to Amsterdam for our anniversary, we’re looking at a hotel with a hot tub and sauna in the room which has got us both feeling quite horny so we’ve mostly just talked about the fun we’re going to have in there rather than actually what we’re going to do in the city. One thing to do in the city that has popped up in conversation is going to watch a sex show or maybe trying a swingers club. We’ve not done anything like that before, we’ve discussed having threesomes but not done it yet, are those sort of places actually worth it? Are we diving in too quickly?

We’ve said we’d need to set some ground rules, stop if either of us feel uncomfortable, maybe just go to watch but not join in, or maybe do things together at a club just to put on a show, but if we feel like doing more we could give it a go.

My misses and I are discussing going to Amsterdam for our anniversary, we’re looking at a hotel with a hot tub and sauna in the room which has got us both feeling quite horny so we’ve mostly just talked about the fun we’re going to have in there rather than actually what we’re going to do in the city. One thing to do in the city that has popped up in conversation is going to watch a sex show or maybe trying a swingers club. We’ve not done anything like that before, we’ve discussed having threesomes but not done it yet, are those sort of places actually worth it? Are we diving in too quickly?

We’ve said we’d need to set some ground rules, stop if either of us feel uncomfortable, maybe just go to watch but not join in, or maybe do things together at a club just to put on a show, but if we feel like doing more we could give it a go.