Pain and discomfort during sex /u/Nikky202 Sex

I lost my virginity with my ex boyfriend. We had sex a lot in our relationship, however it’s was always uncomfortable or painful to me. My current boyfriend has a high sex drive and needs that pleasure. But the stretching from him going in is almost painful. I get pleasure but it takes a while to get there. He has to go very slow and has to basically inch in. But there is still discomfort. And sometimes pain. We do safe sex by using condoms and I have a birth control implant in my arm. We’ve been using lube and that helps a little bit. I don’t want to go to a therapist just yet. I want to try other things on my own before I see someone out it. Does anyone have any advice? How can I have comfortable sex? Anything helps.

I lost my virginity with my ex boyfriend. We had sex a lot in our relationship, however it’s was always uncomfortable or painful to me. My current boyfriend has a high sex drive and needs that pleasure. But the stretching from him going in is almost painful. I get pleasure but it takes a while to get there. He has to go very slow and has to basically inch in. But there is still discomfort. And sometimes pain. We do safe sex by using condoms and I have a birth control implant in my arm. We’ve been using lube and that helps a little bit. I don’t want to go to a therapist just yet. I want to try other things on my own before I see someone out it. Does anyone have any advice? How can I have comfortable sex? Anything helps.