I feel a little bashful typing out this not gonna lie as both me and my boyfriend are newer to sex (we are eachothers first and only ‘body’) but hes just recently expressed that he wants me to take more control sometimes and wants to be dominated and I’m not sure how to do that. For starters, hes a lot bigger than me and obviously has an easier advantage since he has the male appendage. Ive found that when I try to be on top or any position where I can take control, I get tired easily or my legs give out because I have to straddle against a lot of leg mass which is a challenge in itself. Im also a very anxious person so I struggle to speak up for my own pleasure or initiate anything more than I’d like to admit. Ive always felt myself to be more submissive as being in control at least sexually rarely seemed desirable to me but I dont want him to be dissatisfied, especially when hes coming to me with a specific request. I just dont wanna be too much in my head about it either so I wanna see what yall have for me as some suggestions/advice.
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r/sex I feel a little bashful typing out this not gonna lie as both me and my boyfriend are newer to sex (we are eachothers first and only ‘body’) but hes just recently expressed that he wants me to take more control sometimes and wants to be dominated and I’m not sure how to do that. For starters, hes a lot bigger than me and obviously has an easier advantage since he has the male appendage. Ive found that when I try to be on top or any position where I can take control, I get tired easily or my legs give out because I have to straddle against a lot of leg mass which is a challenge in itself. Im also a very anxious person so I struggle to speak up for my own pleasure or initiate anything more than I’d like to admit. Ive always felt myself to be more submissive as being in control at least sexually rarely seemed desirable to me but I dont want him to be dissatisfied, especially when hes coming to me with a specific request. I just dont wanna be too much in my head about it either so I wanna see what yall have for me as some suggestions/advice. submitted by /u/sylvieswife [link] [comments]
I feel a little bashful typing out this not gonna lie as both me and my boyfriend are newer to sex (we are eachothers first and only ‘body’) but hes just recently expressed that he wants me to take more control sometimes and wants to be dominated and I’m not sure how to do that. For starters, hes a lot bigger than me and obviously has an easier advantage since he has the male appendage. Ive found that when I try to be on top or any position where I can take control, I get tired easily or my legs give out because I have to straddle against a lot of leg mass which is a challenge in itself. Im also a very anxious person so I struggle to speak up for my own pleasure or initiate anything more than I’d like to admit. Ive always felt myself to be more submissive as being in control at least sexually rarely seemed desirable to me but I dont want him to be dissatisfied, especially when hes coming to me with a specific request. I just dont wanna be too much in my head about it either so I wanna see what yall have for me as some suggestions/advice.
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