I’m 22F. I got my first boyfriend 4 months ago. He’s a great guy and I find him attractive but in the past I haven’t really tried fantasizing about men that much. When fantasizing about women I never had a problem reaching orgasm, while with men I’ll get turned on but it will be impossible for me to come. I don’t know if that makes me a lesbian instead of bisexual.
I’ve had sex with my boyfriend a bunch of times, but it’s been pretty much the same. I can’t orgasm. He’ll do the same things I do alone, sometimes better, but I won’t be able to come. I think my anxiety and hormonal issues have played a part in that as well. But I’m just wondering, I see that when we have sex I ejaculate, like with a thick whitish sperm-like liquid which I read to be women’s ejaculation, but doesn’t that only happen after you have orgasmed? At least that’s what I read online. Personally, I don’t feel like I necessarily reach a peak. Sometimes, maybe I do but it feels really weak compared to a few months ago. I feel like my orgasms have weakened overtime, because I have even been struggling with orgasming alone as well these past 4 months. I just don’t know if this is about my sexuality, if it’s hormonal or just stress.
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r/sex I’m 22F. I got my first boyfriend 4 months ago. He’s a great guy and I find him attractive but in the past I haven’t really tried fantasizing about men that much. When fantasizing about women I never had a problem reaching orgasm, while with men I’ll get turned on but it will be impossible for me to come. I don’t know if that makes me a lesbian instead of bisexual. I’ve had sex with my boyfriend a bunch of times, but it’s been pretty much the same. I can’t orgasm. He’ll do the same things I do alone, sometimes better, but I won’t be able to come. I think my anxiety and hormonal issues have played a part in that as well. But I’m just wondering, I see that when we have sex I ejaculate, like with a thick whitish sperm-like liquid which I read to be women’s ejaculation, but doesn’t that only happen after you have orgasmed? At least that’s what I read online. Personally, I don’t feel like I necessarily reach a peak. Sometimes, maybe I do but it feels really weak compared to a few months ago. I feel like my orgasms have weakened overtime, because I have even been struggling with orgasming alone as well these past 4 months. I just don’t know if this is about my sexuality, if it’s hormonal or just stress. submitted by /u/One-Resort-107 [link] [comments]
I’m 22F. I got my first boyfriend 4 months ago. He’s a great guy and I find him attractive but in the past I haven’t really tried fantasizing about men that much. When fantasizing about women I never had a problem reaching orgasm, while with men I’ll get turned on but it will be impossible for me to come. I don’t know if that makes me a lesbian instead of bisexual.
I’ve had sex with my boyfriend a bunch of times, but it’s been pretty much the same. I can’t orgasm. He’ll do the same things I do alone, sometimes better, but I won’t be able to come. I think my anxiety and hormonal issues have played a part in that as well. But I’m just wondering, I see that when we have sex I ejaculate, like with a thick whitish sperm-like liquid which I read to be women’s ejaculation, but doesn’t that only happen after you have orgasmed? At least that’s what I read online. Personally, I don’t feel like I necessarily reach a peak. Sometimes, maybe I do but it feels really weak compared to a few months ago. I feel like my orgasms have weakened overtime, because I have even been struggling with orgasming alone as well these past 4 months. I just don’t know if this is about my sexuality, if it’s hormonal or just stress.
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