23 yo f, have been with my bf for 4-5 months ? and usually see each other every weekend or every other weekend ( depending on our busy schedules ) and whenever we first started dating, it seemed like we would have sex every weekend we would see each other and I didn’t mind, we don’t really get to see each other often so I get it. But now as we get further into the relationship, i’m kind of ??? tired of it ??? I don’t really have a sex drive ( no i’m not on any meds or anything that could cause me to feel that way ) I also just don’t like the idea of us “having” to have sex every weekend we see each other. I feel like i’m more intimate and just wanting to be in the presence of my s/o, but sex every single time we see each other??? idk, it makes it feel like a chore to me at some points (not that he’s making me do it or anything) but I feel like I have to? even though I’m sometimes not in the mood. does anyone else have this issue? I’m just so tired of relationships being revolved around sex, it makes me want to go celibate sometimes but idk how he would react if I brought that up. but also, why would I be feeling like this? is this normal? I don’t necessarily think something is wrong with me because I don’t have a high sex drive but I just don’t get why I feel this way?
idk, this is something i’ve kinda been dealing with for a while and literally made a new reddit (just in case) because of it. if ANYONE has dealt or is dealing with this, PLZ HELP. I just need to know if this is something that’s “normal” ?
anyways, thank you <3
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r/sex 23 yo f, have been with my bf for 4-5 months ? and usually see each other every weekend or every other weekend ( depending on our busy schedules ) and whenever we first started dating, it seemed like we would have sex every weekend we would see each other and I didn’t mind, we don’t really get to see each other often so I get it. But now as we get further into the relationship, i’m kind of ??? tired of it ??? I don’t really have a sex drive ( no i’m not on any meds or anything that could cause me to feel that way ) I also just don’t like the idea of us “having” to have sex every weekend we see each other. I feel like i’m more intimate and just wanting to be in the presence of my s/o, but sex every single time we see each other??? idk, it makes it feel like a chore to me at some points (not that he’s making me do it or anything) but I feel like I have to? even though I’m sometimes not in the mood. does anyone else have this issue? I’m just so tired of relationships being revolved around sex, it makes me want to go celibate sometimes but idk how he would react if I brought that up. but also, why would I be feeling like this? is this normal? I don’t necessarily think something is wrong with me because I don’t have a high sex drive but I just don’t get why I feel this way? idk, this is something i’ve kinda been dealing with for a while and literally made a new reddit (just in case) because of it. if ANYONE has dealt or is dealing with this, PLZ HELP. I just need to know if this is something that’s “normal” ? anyways, thank you <3 submitted by /u/saadaiir [link] [comments]
23 yo f, have been with my bf for 4-5 months ? and usually see each other every weekend or every other weekend ( depending on our busy schedules ) and whenever we first started dating, it seemed like we would have sex every weekend we would see each other and I didn’t mind, we don’t really get to see each other often so I get it. But now as we get further into the relationship, i’m kind of ??? tired of it ??? I don’t really have a sex drive ( no i’m not on any meds or anything that could cause me to feel that way ) I also just don’t like the idea of us “having” to have sex every weekend we see each other. I feel like i’m more intimate and just wanting to be in the presence of my s/o, but sex every single time we see each other??? idk, it makes it feel like a chore to me at some points (not that he’s making me do it or anything) but I feel like I have to? even though I’m sometimes not in the mood. does anyone else have this issue? I’m just so tired of relationships being revolved around sex, it makes me want to go celibate sometimes but idk how he would react if I brought that up. but also, why would I be feeling like this? is this normal? I don’t necessarily think something is wrong with me because I don’t have a high sex drive but I just don’t get why I feel this way?
idk, this is something i’ve kinda been dealing with for a while and literally made a new reddit (just in case) because of it. if ANYONE has dealt or is dealing with this, PLZ HELP. I just need to know if this is something that’s “normal” ?
anyways, thank you <3
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