First of all, I wanted to say that I (female, 19) live with my parents and go to college, my parents are super conservative and won’t let me do any other route than school-home, home-school, and no one wants to date me yet. , so having sex with someone is still not an option.
I always see a lot of people saying that masturbation is one of the best things, that cumming is incredible, etc., but I just can’t do it. I’ve tried all kinds of stimulation and movements on the clitoris, I’ve tried to get horny, whether by watching porn or imagining things, I’ve tried putting a finger inside, putting other things inside too, I’ve tried inserting a finger in the back (😓😓 ) but it just hurt and bled, and anyway, I’ve tried everything, but I don’t feel horny or pleasure in masturbating at all.
I have a lot of expectations about sex and I’m looking forward to my first time, but I try to keep in mind that I’ve never felt different (in the sense of enjoying it and feeling pleasure) while I’m touching myself, I’m afraid that I won’t be able to get “there” with it either. my future partner and never experience the sensation of an orgasm.
As I already mentioned, I see a lot of people saying that enjoying is AMAZING and super liberating, I’ve also heard that feeling pleasure is one of the best things God has left for us. I’m SO SO curious to know what it’s like, but I can’t. I’m afraid this is a problem with me or my health.
ps1: I’ve been trying since I was 13, obviously not all the time, just sometimes.
ps2: I’m alone at home in the afternoon because they work, but we live in a building and as they constantly buy things online, they constantly ask the doorman if any orders have arrived, asking for a vibrator or anything else like that isn’t an option either. option
ps3: I’ve never been to a gynecologist, not even after my first period, I’m embarrassed to ask my mother to take me to one and then talk about this situation
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r/sex First of all, I wanted to say that I (female, 19) live with my parents and go to college, my parents are super conservative and won’t let me do any other route than school-home, home-school, and no one wants to date me yet. , so having sex with someone is still not an option. I always see a lot of people saying that masturbation is one of the best things, that cumming is incredible, etc., but I just can’t do it. I’ve tried all kinds of stimulation and movements on the clitoris, I’ve tried to get horny, whether by watching porn or imagining things, I’ve tried putting a finger inside, putting other things inside too, I’ve tried inserting a finger in the back (😓😓 ) but it just hurt and bled, and anyway, I’ve tried everything, but I don’t feel horny or pleasure in masturbating at all. I have a lot of expectations about sex and I’m looking forward to my first time, but I try to keep in mind that I’ve never felt different (in the sense of enjoying it and feeling pleasure) while I’m touching myself, I’m afraid that I won’t be able to get “there” with it either. my future partner and never experience the sensation of an orgasm. As I already mentioned, I see a lot of people saying that enjoying is AMAZING and super liberating, I’ve also heard that feeling pleasure is one of the best things God has left for us. I’m SO SO curious to know what it’s like, but I can’t. I’m afraid this is a problem with me or my health. ps1: I’ve been trying since I was 13, obviously not all the time, just sometimes. ps2: I’m alone at home in the afternoon because they work, but we live in a building and as they constantly buy things online, they constantly ask the doorman if any orders have arrived, asking for a vibrator or anything else like that isn’t an option either. option ps3: I’ve never been to a gynecologist, not even after my first period, I’m embarrassed to ask my mother to take me to one and then talk about this situation submitted by /u/wxrns [link] [comments]
First of all, I wanted to say that I (female, 19) live with my parents and go to college, my parents are super conservative and won’t let me do any other route than school-home, home-school, and no one wants to date me yet. , so having sex with someone is still not an option.
I always see a lot of people saying that masturbation is one of the best things, that cumming is incredible, etc., but I just can’t do it. I’ve tried all kinds of stimulation and movements on the clitoris, I’ve tried to get horny, whether by watching porn or imagining things, I’ve tried putting a finger inside, putting other things inside too, I’ve tried inserting a finger in the back (😓😓 ) but it just hurt and bled, and anyway, I’ve tried everything, but I don’t feel horny or pleasure in masturbating at all.
I have a lot of expectations about sex and I’m looking forward to my first time, but I try to keep in mind that I’ve never felt different (in the sense of enjoying it and feeling pleasure) while I’m touching myself, I’m afraid that I won’t be able to get “there” with it either. my future partner and never experience the sensation of an orgasm.
As I already mentioned, I see a lot of people saying that enjoying is AMAZING and super liberating, I’ve also heard that feeling pleasure is one of the best things God has left for us. I’m SO SO curious to know what it’s like, but I can’t. I’m afraid this is a problem with me or my health.
ps1: I’ve been trying since I was 13, obviously not all the time, just sometimes.
ps2: I’m alone at home in the afternoon because they work, but we live in a building and as they constantly buy things online, they constantly ask the doorman if any orders have arrived, asking for a vibrator or anything else like that isn’t an option either. option
ps3: I’ve never been to a gynecologist, not even after my first period, I’m embarrassed to ask my mother to take me to one and then talk about this situation
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