Does penetration feel more comfortable than fingers? /u/belgianchocolate08 Sex

I (24f) have never had penetrative sex. My ex tried with 2-3 fingers and they felt very.. bony and not very comfy.

I felt a tear somewhere inside and I couldn’t even get it checked because we stay in India and docs kind of shame unmarried couples for such things. I am hoping it will heal on its own, it’s a dull pain sensation.

So I want to be know if there’s not much difference in comfort level of fingers vs penis. Or is it worse? It’s kind of making me panic because I’d like to try penetration some day.

I (24f) have never had penetrative sex. My ex tried with 2-3 fingers and they felt very.. bony and not very comfy.

I felt a tear somewhere inside and I couldn’t even get it checked because we stay in India and docs kind of shame unmarried couples for such things. I am hoping it will heal on its own, it’s a dull pain sensation.

So I want to be know if there’s not much difference in comfort level of fingers vs penis. Or is it worse? It’s kind of making me panic because I’d like to try penetration some day.