25F Can’t orgasm with a partner /u/Feisty-Result-9586 Sex

To me, sex is a joint act and orgasm is a solo act. I have never found myself close to orgasm with another person, no matter how many things we try (kink, vibrators, oral experimentation etc). My current partner is very eager to please me and willing to try pretty much anything I want to try in bed. I worry that there is something wrong with me, that no matter what we try, I will never be able to achieve orgasm with another person. I worry too much about being perceived, about what the other person is feeling to ever focus fully on me and myself. I enjoy sex, but it feels very different to me than mastrubation. Feeling dejected:(

To me, sex is a joint act and orgasm is a solo act. I have never found myself close to orgasm with another person, no matter how many things we try (kink, vibrators, oral experimentation etc). My current partner is very eager to please me and willing to try pretty much anything I want to try in bed. I worry that there is something wrong with me, that no matter what we try, I will never be able to achieve orgasm with another person. I worry too much about being perceived, about what the other person is feeling to ever focus fully on me and myself. I enjoy sex, but it feels very different to me than mastrubation. Feeling dejected:(