I (35m) have been sexually active my whole adult life. I’m no stud, but I’ve had my fair share of partners and flings. During this time there has been one constant, I’ve found it very hard to orgasm. In the 17 years of being an adult I’ve ejaculated 3 times. This has often led to me not enjoying sex as much as I think I should. Which in turn has destroyed a lot of relationships in the past.
Recently I’ve come to a realisation (with my current partner, who me is very understanding of the situation and is very supportive) that a big problem I have is whenever we have sex, there’s no “wow this feels good”. It’s kind of like “oh yeah, it’s in, now what?” There is no feeling is anything enjoyable. There’s next to no feeling at all. I’m not sure, but I don’t think this is normal.
For anybody that can simply explain it, how is it supposed to feel? Am I supposed to be moaning with enjoyment? Where does it feel good? Why does it feel good?
Do I need to seek medical help?
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r/sex I (35m) have been sexually active my whole adult life. I’m no stud, but I’ve had my fair share of partners and flings. During this time there has been one constant, I’ve found it very hard to orgasm. In the 17 years of being an adult I’ve ejaculated 3 times. This has often led to me not enjoying sex as much as I think I should. Which in turn has destroyed a lot of relationships in the past. Recently I’ve come to a realisation (with my current partner, who me is very understanding of the situation and is very supportive) that a big problem I have is whenever we have sex, there’s no “wow this feels good”. It’s kind of like “oh yeah, it’s in, now what?” There is no feeling is anything enjoyable. There’s next to no feeling at all. I’m not sure, but I don’t think this is normal. For anybody that can simply explain it, how is it supposed to feel? Am I supposed to be moaning with enjoyment? Where does it feel good? Why does it feel good? Do I need to seek medical help? submitted by /u/Appropriate_One_7812 [link] [comments]
I (35m) have been sexually active my whole adult life. I’m no stud, but I’ve had my fair share of partners and flings. During this time there has been one constant, I’ve found it very hard to orgasm. In the 17 years of being an adult I’ve ejaculated 3 times. This has often led to me not enjoying sex as much as I think I should. Which in turn has destroyed a lot of relationships in the past.
Recently I’ve come to a realisation (with my current partner, who me is very understanding of the situation and is very supportive) that a big problem I have is whenever we have sex, there’s no “wow this feels good”. It’s kind of like “oh yeah, it’s in, now what?” There is no feeling is anything enjoyable. There’s next to no feeling at all. I’m not sure, but I don’t think this is normal.
For anybody that can simply explain it, how is it supposed to feel? Am I supposed to be moaning with enjoyment? Where does it feel good? Why does it feel good?
Do I need to seek medical help?
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