There’s a whole…conversation…around partners lasting longer (especially at men) and a lot of my female friends talk about needing to go for egregious amounts of time. While sometimes I fall into a mood where I like sex to last 30 minutes+ I generally do not enjoy longer than that 30 minute mark. I cum quick (I mean, like seconds for the first orgasm) and when sex reaches that 10 minute mark I am shaking from orgasm after orgasm. Sometimes it can even be painful. I have a strong preference to quickies, and generally want to skip most foreplay (received) if it involves sensitive areas.
I do have a lovely sexual partner right now where we match because he doesn’t last that long, but the situation will likely be temporary as our lives move forward. I’m also queer with a heavy preference for AFAB’s, but the WLW prides on going for hours and hours and hours (and I just cannot most of the time). There’s also been times where men have been extremely ashamed at not being about to last and when I’ve expressed this isn’t an issue at all- and when I cum quick I’m accused of faking orgasms. This isn’t necessarily a problem because communication and such, and learning to trust your partner is vital and it’s not my fault blah blah blah.
I guess what I’m trying to get at here is, 1) are there any other AFAB’s with this experience and do you feel grateful or broken? 2) are there any tips for vagina-havers at lasting longer? I’ve tried a couple methods, and well, results vary but nothing tried and true.
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r/sex There’s a whole…conversation…around partners lasting longer (especially at men) and a lot of my female friends talk about needing to go for egregious amounts of time. While sometimes I fall into a mood where I like sex to last 30 minutes+ I generally do not enjoy longer than that 30 minute mark. I cum quick (I mean, like seconds for the first orgasm) and when sex reaches that 10 minute mark I am shaking from orgasm after orgasm. Sometimes it can even be painful. I have a strong preference to quickies, and generally want to skip most foreplay (received) if it involves sensitive areas. I do have a lovely sexual partner right now where we match because he doesn’t last that long, but the situation will likely be temporary as our lives move forward. I’m also queer with a heavy preference for AFAB’s, but the WLW prides on going for hours and hours and hours (and I just cannot most of the time). There’s also been times where men have been extremely ashamed at not being about to last and when I’ve expressed this isn’t an issue at all- and when I cum quick I’m accused of faking orgasms. This isn’t necessarily a problem because communication and such, and learning to trust your partner is vital and it’s not my fault blah blah blah. I guess what I’m trying to get at here is, 1) are there any other AFAB’s with this experience and do you feel grateful or broken? 2) are there any tips for vagina-havers at lasting longer? I’ve tried a couple methods, and well, results vary but nothing tried and true. submitted by /u/potatersaur [link] [comments]
There’s a whole…conversation…around partners lasting longer (especially at men) and a lot of my female friends talk about needing to go for egregious amounts of time. While sometimes I fall into a mood where I like sex to last 30 minutes+ I generally do not enjoy longer than that 30 minute mark. I cum quick (I mean, like seconds for the first orgasm) and when sex reaches that 10 minute mark I am shaking from orgasm after orgasm. Sometimes it can even be painful. I have a strong preference to quickies, and generally want to skip most foreplay (received) if it involves sensitive areas.
I do have a lovely sexual partner right now where we match because he doesn’t last that long, but the situation will likely be temporary as our lives move forward. I’m also queer with a heavy preference for AFAB’s, but the WLW prides on going for hours and hours and hours (and I just cannot most of the time). There’s also been times where men have been extremely ashamed at not being about to last and when I’ve expressed this isn’t an issue at all- and when I cum quick I’m accused of faking orgasms. This isn’t necessarily a problem because communication and such, and learning to trust your partner is vital and it’s not my fault blah blah blah.
I guess what I’m trying to get at here is, 1) are there any other AFAB’s with this experience and do you feel grateful or broken? 2) are there any tips for vagina-havers at lasting longer? I’ve tried a couple methods, and well, results vary but nothing tried and true.
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