How common are multiple orgasms really? /u/agarijones Sex

So having lurked reddit a lot before I was sexually active I thought girls could generally cum over and over but in my experience (of maybe around 10 partners) only one seemed to be able to cum more than once, and that was mostly through fingering. There were two times that two separate partners even told me to stop cause they weren’t ready to cum yet.

I’m just curious what this internet-reality divide is cause I feel like my understanding of sex was so warped from going online that I’m not sure what’s real or not. I thought like ever girl was an orgasm machine when I was young (sorry if that made anyone’s eyes role due to my sheer ignorance) but I’m curious what’s actually the case.

So having lurked reddit a lot before I was sexually active I thought girls could generally cum over and over but in my experience (of maybe around 10 partners) only one seemed to be able to cum more than once, and that was mostly through fingering. There were two times that two separate partners even told me to stop cause they weren’t ready to cum yet.

I’m just curious what this internet-reality divide is cause I feel like my understanding of sex was so warped from going online that I’m not sure what’s real or not. I thought like ever girl was an orgasm machine when I was young (sorry if that made anyone’s eyes role due to my sheer ignorance) but I’m curious what’s actually the case.