hello reddit, this is kinda a last resort for me because i cant figure this out myself. me and my bf have been together for a little over a year and a half. obviously in the beginning we had sex pretty often with the occasional denial from me just not really being in the mood. but a few months ago its slowed down a lot, all because of me.
i got a job around september and thats when i dropped off. i dont know why but i was just never in the mood despite how much i wanted to be. even after i left that job, i cant feel anything. i dont even masturbate and i used to a few times a week. i dont know whats wrong with me or my body but its scaring me because i dont want my bf to resent me. he will make a joke about it occasionally and i know hes trying to be funny, but it really hurts me. hes the sweetest and handsomest boy in the worlds and ive had a lot of fun every time ive had sex with him, but i just never get horny and i dont know what to do 🙁 please help me
ill try and add some things that could maybe contribute to my low libido. im not on bc so thats def not it. i take pristiq antidepressants. my only bad experiences with sex are from an ex bf who didnt really take my feelings into consideration much and also coerced me into having sex with him once when he was drunk, and he wouldnt let me leave the party until i said yes. our friends walked out and caught us, it was mortifying. me and my bf have tried talking about it, but it kinda feels like he doesnt want to dig into my issues because of discomfort. i really want to make him happy and he has a very high libido, please help me 🙁 im sorry if this is all over the place, im desperate and want to fix myself.
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r/sex hello reddit, this is kinda a last resort for me because i cant figure this out myself. me and my bf have been together for a little over a year and a half. obviously in the beginning we had sex pretty often with the occasional denial from me just not really being in the mood. but a few months ago its slowed down a lot, all because of me. i got a job around september and thats when i dropped off. i dont know why but i was just never in the mood despite how much i wanted to be. even after i left that job, i cant feel anything. i dont even masturbate and i used to a few times a week. i dont know whats wrong with me or my body but its scaring me because i dont want my bf to resent me. he will make a joke about it occasionally and i know hes trying to be funny, but it really hurts me. hes the sweetest and handsomest boy in the worlds and ive had a lot of fun every time ive had sex with him, but i just never get horny and i dont know what to do 🙁 please help me ill try and add some things that could maybe contribute to my low libido. im not on bc so thats def not it. i take pristiq antidepressants. my only bad experiences with sex are from an ex bf who didnt really take my feelings into consideration much and also coerced me into having sex with him once when he was drunk, and he wouldnt let me leave the party until i said yes. our friends walked out and caught us, it was mortifying. me and my bf have tried talking about it, but it kinda feels like he doesnt want to dig into my issues because of discomfort. i really want to make him happy and he has a very high libido, please help me 🙁 im sorry if this is all over the place, im desperate and want to fix myself. submitted by /u/peachnsnails [link] [comments]
hello reddit, this is kinda a last resort for me because i cant figure this out myself. me and my bf have been together for a little over a year and a half. obviously in the beginning we had sex pretty often with the occasional denial from me just not really being in the mood. but a few months ago its slowed down a lot, all because of me.
i got a job around september and thats when i dropped off. i dont know why but i was just never in the mood despite how much i wanted to be. even after i left that job, i cant feel anything. i dont even masturbate and i used to a few times a week. i dont know whats wrong with me or my body but its scaring me because i dont want my bf to resent me. he will make a joke about it occasionally and i know hes trying to be funny, but it really hurts me. hes the sweetest and handsomest boy in the worlds and ive had a lot of fun every time ive had sex with him, but i just never get horny and i dont know what to do 🙁 please help me
ill try and add some things that could maybe contribute to my low libido. im not on bc so thats def not it. i take pristiq antidepressants. my only bad experiences with sex are from an ex bf who didnt really take my feelings into consideration much and also coerced me into having sex with him once when he was drunk, and he wouldnt let me leave the party until i said yes. our friends walked out and caught us, it was mortifying. me and my bf have tried talking about it, but it kinda feels like he doesnt want to dig into my issues because of discomfort. i really want to make him happy and he has a very high libido, please help me 🙁 im sorry if this is all over the place, im desperate and want to fix myself.
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