Hey so I have 2 basic questions.
How common are mismatched libidos? Where do you draw the line and breakup?
So for context, I 26 HLM would be happy to have sex maybe 4 / 5 times a week whereas my GF 29LLF, of 4 years, is happy to have sex once a month. I know for a fact that this woman loves me A Lot, but for some reason it doesn’t equate to sexual attraction and she said sex is just something she doesn’t think about. I also love her, but I feel like I’m missing out.
This is my only real relationship so I’m just wondering if such a huge mismatch is normal and how people can overcome them. On the opposite side, should I just break up with her? Does anybody have a similar experience? Long term loving partner who has no desire for sex. Were you happier after leaving or did you regret it? I can’t stress enough how perfect she is outside of sex
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r/sex Hey so I have 2 basic questions. How common are mismatched libidos? Where do you draw the line and breakup? So for context, I 26 HLM would be happy to have sex maybe 4 / 5 times a week whereas my GF 29LLF, of 4 years, is happy to have sex once a month. I know for a fact that this woman loves me A Lot, but for some reason it doesn’t equate to sexual attraction and she said sex is just something she doesn’t think about. I also love her, but I feel like I’m missing out. This is my only real relationship so I’m just wondering if such a huge mismatch is normal and how people can overcome them. On the opposite side, should I just break up with her? Does anybody have a similar experience? Long term loving partner who has no desire for sex. Were you happier after leaving or did you regret it? I can’t stress enough how perfect she is outside of sex submitted by /u/ThrowRAconfliicted [link] [comments]
Hey so I have 2 basic questions.
How common are mismatched libidos? Where do you draw the line and breakup?
So for context, I 26 HLM would be happy to have sex maybe 4 / 5 times a week whereas my GF 29LLF, of 4 years, is happy to have sex once a month. I know for a fact that this woman loves me A Lot, but for some reason it doesn’t equate to sexual attraction and she said sex is just something she doesn’t think about. I also love her, but I feel like I’m missing out.
This is my only real relationship so I’m just wondering if such a huge mismatch is normal and how people can overcome them. On the opposite side, should I just break up with her? Does anybody have a similar experience? Long term loving partner who has no desire for sex. Were you happier after leaving or did you regret it? I can’t stress enough how perfect she is outside of sex
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