I’ve been with my bf for a little over a year now, and I’ve had a bf in the past that I had the same problem with. When I was young like just beginning to experiment with self pleaser I never found any pleasure when using fingers on myself. I don’t even know how I figured it out but I only know one way that I can make myself cum and actually feel a good sensation. I would cup my hands kind of like you do when you clap loud for a show or something, I would put one hand below the other and lay on my stomach and kind of grind against them. I embarrassingly still do this. Don’t get my wrong I’ve come many times, however I’ve only orgasm once with my current boyfriend none with my past one. I told him jokingly “I think I just saw gods gates open” and we both have a weird sense of humour so we called it “poetic” I’ve tried that same position that I was in when I finally did and I never have since. A part of it is I was pissed off at him that time but we both wanted to still do it so I was making him suffer and taking it out for a few secs then continued which made him super hard, now in that same position it’s kind of soft and I’m worried that it’s something I’m doing. And I know sex doesn’t have to be just for an orgasm but it would be nice to have one once in a while. Any tips?
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r/sex I’ve been with my bf for a little over a year now, and I’ve had a bf in the past that I had the same problem with. When I was young like just beginning to experiment with self pleaser I never found any pleasure when using fingers on myself. I don’t even know how I figured it out but I only know one way that I can make myself cum and actually feel a good sensation. I would cup my hands kind of like you do when you clap loud for a show or something, I would put one hand below the other and lay on my stomach and kind of grind against them. I embarrassingly still do this. Don’t get my wrong I’ve come many times, however I’ve only orgasm once with my current boyfriend none with my past one. I told him jokingly “I think I just saw gods gates open” and we both have a weird sense of humour so we called it “poetic” I’ve tried that same position that I was in when I finally did and I never have since. A part of it is I was pissed off at him that time but we both wanted to still do it so I was making him suffer and taking it out for a few secs then continued which made him super hard, now in that same position it’s kind of soft and I’m worried that it’s something I’m doing. And I know sex doesn’t have to be just for an orgasm but it would be nice to have one once in a while. Any tips? submitted by /u/Blueylvr08 [link] [comments]
I’ve been with my bf for a little over a year now, and I’ve had a bf in the past that I had the same problem with. When I was young like just beginning to experiment with self pleaser I never found any pleasure when using fingers on myself. I don’t even know how I figured it out but I only know one way that I can make myself cum and actually feel a good sensation. I would cup my hands kind of like you do when you clap loud for a show or something, I would put one hand below the other and lay on my stomach and kind of grind against them. I embarrassingly still do this. Don’t get my wrong I’ve come many times, however I’ve only orgasm once with my current boyfriend none with my past one. I told him jokingly “I think I just saw gods gates open” and we both have a weird sense of humour so we called it “poetic” I’ve tried that same position that I was in when I finally did and I never have since. A part of it is I was pissed off at him that time but we both wanted to still do it so I was making him suffer and taking it out for a few secs then continued which made him super hard, now in that same position it’s kind of soft and I’m worried that it’s something I’m doing. And I know sex doesn’t have to be just for an orgasm but it would be nice to have one once in a while. Any tips?
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