How do I open up more? I’m holding myself back due to shame and it keeps me from being able to climax most of the time. /u/TamblynRosendahl Sex

Just as it states. I was raised Christian and in an environment that made shame and sex synonymous. My mom would tell me that women don’t enjoy it, it’s a task, don’t have sex until you’re married, etc. Well, I did NOT wait. And i found that i have a VERY high sex drive. My husband and I have sex probably 6 days out of the week. This is not to say that I don’t enjoy it. I very much do, but I find it really hard to be open about it. The shame just creeps up on me and I can’t admit to wanting to have sex, participate in dirty talk, and it even keeps me from being too into it at times. So it can stop me from climaxing. I don’t know what to do about this, how to be more comfortable and let myself go. Has anyone here overcome this issue?

Just as it states. I was raised Christian and in an environment that made shame and sex synonymous. My mom would tell me that women don’t enjoy it, it’s a task, don’t have sex until you’re married, etc. Well, I did NOT wait. And i found that i have a VERY high sex drive. My husband and I have sex probably 6 days out of the week. This is not to say that I don’t enjoy it. I very much do, but I find it really hard to be open about it. The shame just creeps up on me and I can’t admit to wanting to have sex, participate in dirty talk, and it even keeps me from being too into it at times. So it can stop me from climaxing. I don’t know what to do about this, how to be more comfortable and let myself go. Has anyone here overcome this issue?