I (30f) just got out of an unhealthy relationship. I went on tinder not expecting to find anyone but suddenly met a guy (31m) who I’m shockingly compatible with. But I’m super nervous about being intimate with him. Last time I was single was on a break from my last relationship and I was raped. I just got back with my ex who I trusted and I never had to deal with it. It was also not my first time being assaulted.
This guy is really sweet. He seems very fond if me, which makes me very nervous. But what makes me the most nervous is being physically intimate. I’m very experienced like 100-200 previous partners. But I can’t even cuddle or make out with this guy with out smoking a little weed to calm my nerves.
The nerves are getting a little better but I don’t fully understand it and I don’t like it. He’s super respectful, not at all pushy.
Does anyone have any insight or advice?
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r/sex I (30f) just got out of an unhealthy relationship. I went on tinder not expecting to find anyone but suddenly met a guy (31m) who I’m shockingly compatible with. But I’m super nervous about being intimate with him. Last time I was single was on a break from my last relationship and I was raped. I just got back with my ex who I trusted and I never had to deal with it. It was also not my first time being assaulted. This guy is really sweet. He seems very fond if me, which makes me very nervous. But what makes me the most nervous is being physically intimate. I’m very experienced like 100-200 previous partners. But I can’t even cuddle or make out with this guy with out smoking a little weed to calm my nerves. The nerves are getting a little better but I don’t fully understand it and I don’t like it. He’s super respectful, not at all pushy. Does anyone have any insight or advice? submitted by /u/Sagafreyja [link] [comments]
I (30f) just got out of an unhealthy relationship. I went on tinder not expecting to find anyone but suddenly met a guy (31m) who I’m shockingly compatible with. But I’m super nervous about being intimate with him. Last time I was single was on a break from my last relationship and I was raped. I just got back with my ex who I trusted and I never had to deal with it. It was also not my first time being assaulted.
This guy is really sweet. He seems very fond if me, which makes me very nervous. But what makes me the most nervous is being physically intimate. I’m very experienced like 100-200 previous partners. But I can’t even cuddle or make out with this guy with out smoking a little weed to calm my nerves.
The nerves are getting a little better but I don’t fully understand it and I don’t like it. He’s super respectful, not at all pushy.
Does anyone have any insight or advice?
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