Lots of advice /u/Anxiety_Reserve2001 Sex

I (23f) just started dating a long term friend of mine (23m). He’s the absolute sweetest. I’ll just jump into it because there’s a few questions I have.

I’ve slept with a couple people, all were more experienced than me. He’s a virgin, next to no experience at all. He’s never “made out so much.” I want to make sure he’s comfortable – sex has been a discussion and he’ll let me know when he’s ready, but I wanna make sure I’m not doing anything out of line. Do I just stop every now and then to check in? What is the protocol?

He’s also on the larger side. Not sure an exact number, he’s not obese, but maybe to be described as a dad bod. He’s the first guy I’ve been with that’s not super skinny. I’m 5’3” and just over 100 pounds, so there’s a lot of leeway in positions on my side of things. Is there any specific positions we should try or ones to try to avoid? The avoiding would mostly be to avoid anything embarrassing that might make him feel like shit about himself. He’s a little insecure and started going to the gym, but I want to avoid anything that will make him feel bad about himself.

And finally, he’s uncircumcised. I literally have never seen an uncircumcised dick before. A mutual friend of ours told him he has to warn me. I’ve been warned. I don’t know what to expect. Google told me you pull back the foreskin and put lube in the condom so his skin doesn’t tear. Anything else that’s practical advice on a safety end would be greatly appreciated. Any advice on any sex acts on how uncircumcised dudes are different would also be appreciated, like blowjobs. Do you pull back the foreskin for that? I have no idea. I mostly just go with the flow, he has no flow, he’s never done anything. Literally ANY advice for me would be amazing.

Thanks in advance guys. I know it’s a lot but even if you can only answer one part of one question, I’d be grateful.

I (23f) just started dating a long term friend of mine (23m). He’s the absolute sweetest. I’ll just jump into it because there’s a few questions I have.

I’ve slept with a couple people, all were more experienced than me. He’s a virgin, next to no experience at all. He’s never “made out so much.” I want to make sure he’s comfortable – sex has been a discussion and he’ll let me know when he’s ready, but I wanna make sure I’m not doing anything out of line. Do I just stop every now and then to check in? What is the protocol?

He’s also on the larger side. Not sure an exact number, he’s not obese, but maybe to be described as a dad bod. He’s the first guy I’ve been with that’s not super skinny. I’m 5’3” and just over 100 pounds, so there’s a lot of leeway in positions on my side of things. Is there any specific positions we should try or ones to try to avoid? The avoiding would mostly be to avoid anything embarrassing that might make him feel like shit about himself. He’s a little insecure and started going to the gym, but I want to avoid anything that will make him feel bad about himself.

And finally, he’s uncircumcised. I literally have never seen an uncircumcised dick before. A mutual friend of ours told him he has to warn me. I’ve been warned. I don’t know what to expect. Google told me you pull back the foreskin and put lube in the condom so his skin doesn’t tear. Anything else that’s practical advice on a safety end would be greatly appreciated. Any advice on any sex acts on how uncircumcised dudes are different would also be appreciated, like blowjobs. Do you pull back the foreskin for that? I have no idea. I mostly just go with the flow, he has no flow, he’s never done anything. Literally ANY advice for me would be amazing.

Thanks in advance guys. I know it’s a lot but even if you can only answer one part of one question, I’d be grateful.