How do I allow myself to cum? /u/Critical_Stuff_2193 Sex

I have this issue where I cannot bring myself to orgasm during sex. I tried to find answers online but its all directed towards women, while I am a man. The best way the I can describe it is that during sex, even though it feels good, I am never close to orgasm. Its like I am not even in the right mindset to orgasm (even though I don’t know what that should be because in the moment I feel fine). Its as if I’m unintentionally psyching myself out because no matter how long we go, or what we do, I don’t become closer to cumming. Its to the point where I just go into sex already expecting not to cum and we just stop when I become to exhausted to continue. It doesn’t feel like a physical issue but more a psychological one. I don’t know how common this is in men, but I am just hoping for some guidance to help understand why its happening, and how to fix it.

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​r/sex I have this issue where I cannot bring myself to orgasm during sex. I tried to find answers online but its all directed towards women, while I am a man. The best way the I can describe it is that during sex, even though it feels good, I am never close to orgasm. Its like I am not even in the right mindset to orgasm (even though I don’t know what that should be because in the moment I feel fine). Its as if I’m unintentionally psyching myself out because no matter how long we go, or what we do, I don’t become closer to cumming. Its to the point where I just go into sex already expecting not to cum and we just stop when I become to exhausted to continue. It doesn’t feel like a physical issue but more a psychological one. I don’t know how common this is in men, but I am just hoping for some guidance to help understand why its happening, and how to fix it. submitted by /u/Critical_Stuff_2193 [link] [comments] 

I have this issue where I cannot bring myself to orgasm during sex. I tried to find answers online but its all directed towards women, while I am a man. The best way the I can describe it is that during sex, even though it feels good, I am never close to orgasm. Its like I am not even in the right mindset to orgasm (even though I don’t know what that should be because in the moment I feel fine). Its as if I’m unintentionally psyching myself out because no matter how long we go, or what we do, I don’t become closer to cumming. Its to the point where I just go into sex already expecting not to cum and we just stop when I become to exhausted to continue. It doesn’t feel like a physical issue but more a psychological one. I don’t know how common this is in men, but I am just hoping for some guidance to help understand why its happening, and how to fix it.

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