What could these kinds of commands relate to within BDSM? /u/dorapinkykitty Sex

I’ve been curious about a certain kind of ‘session’ lately, and was wondering if it relates to a specific sub genre of BDSM (aftercare/communication of boundaries excluded) it’s along the lines of:

Being punished for things, but the dom making clear in a tender but medical/parent-like form why through the emotional impact – ‘you’ll be there for an hour, even if it’s cold. I want you to feel upset. I want you to feel needy. Let it out, cry. I don’t want you to be happy right now’ – ‘I’ll be sleeping in the real bed, you on the floor in the laundry room. I’ll be warm, and have all the blankets, and sleep well. You’ll have nothing, and it’ll probably make you cry. You won’t get anything from me tonight, because I want you to know you’re being punished. You’ll be sad, and want to express it. You deserve to feel this badly’ etc

A dom giving commands such as – sleeping on the floor – going to ask for clothes when I leave the shower (necessitating me walking naked through the house to find the dom) – eating specific meals/less/specific foods/leftovers of the dom’s meal – having to sit in his lap and make myself cry, or get emotional in silence. Him watching me, maybe playing in between his/my legs as I do this – being forced to stand in the middle of a room and explain why things arouse me/what I’ve done wrong and why it turns me on – having to behave ‘sexy’/be sexualised (forced lap dance/striptease) in spite of it making me uncomfortable (perhaps to the point of being upset but aroused) and suffer embarrassment of not doing it well because of this

And eventual acceptance/reassurance from things like the above – eventual ‘stop, you’re done. I know it was embarrassing and upsetting, but I don’t want you to continue.’ after doing humiliating things the dom commanded in the first place – specifying me to give in when I feel like it for certain commands (e.g. sleeping on the floor), like being too cold and running upstairs to ask my dom if I can sleep with him (which he would say yes with great reassurance) – mutual upset post-embarrassment/punishment, almost like mirroring my own upset to make me even more embarrassed. If I get shy or teary, the dom would almost get that way too to deliberately show me it’s both okay/as embarrassing as it looks on him

Any idea what this would fall under? What it could be? The air would be very, very serious. Very quiet, and very paternal in the punishment and reassurance styles. 🤔

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​r/sex I’ve been curious about a certain kind of ‘session’ lately, and was wondering if it relates to a specific sub genre of BDSM (aftercare/communication of boundaries excluded) it’s along the lines of: Being punished for things, but the dom making clear in a tender but medical/parent-like form why through the emotional impact – ‘you’ll be there for an hour, even if it’s cold. I want you to feel upset. I want you to feel needy. Let it out, cry. I don’t want you to be happy right now’ – ‘I’ll be sleeping in the real bed, you on the floor in the laundry room. I’ll be warm, and have all the blankets, and sleep well. You’ll have nothing, and it’ll probably make you cry. You won’t get anything from me tonight, because I want you to know you’re being punished. You’ll be sad, and want to express it. You deserve to feel this badly’ etc A dom giving commands such as – sleeping on the floor – going to ask for clothes when I leave the shower (necessitating me walking naked through the house to find the dom) – eating specific meals/less/specific foods/leftovers of the dom’s meal – having to sit in his lap and make myself cry, or get emotional in silence. Him watching me, maybe playing in between his/my legs as I do this – being forced to stand in the middle of a room and explain why things arouse me/what I’ve done wrong and why it turns me on – having to behave ‘sexy’/be sexualised (forced lap dance/striptease) in spite of it making me uncomfortable (perhaps to the point of being upset but aroused) and suffer embarrassment of not doing it well because of this And eventual acceptance/reassurance from things like the above – eventual ‘stop, you’re done. I know it was embarrassing and upsetting, but I don’t want you to continue.’ after doing humiliating things the dom commanded in the first place – specifying me to give in when I feel like it for certain commands (e.g. sleeping on the floor), like being too cold and running upstairs to ask my dom if I can sleep with him (which he would say yes with great reassurance) – mutual upset post-embarrassment/punishment, almost like mirroring my own upset to make me even more embarrassed. If I get shy or teary, the dom would almost get that way too to deliberately show me it’s both okay/as embarrassing as it looks on him Any idea what this would fall under? What it could be? The air would be very, very serious. Very quiet, and very paternal in the punishment and reassurance styles. 🤔 submitted by /u/dorapinkykitty [link] [comments] 

I’ve been curious about a certain kind of ‘session’ lately, and was wondering if it relates to a specific sub genre of BDSM (aftercare/communication of boundaries excluded) it’s along the lines of:

Being punished for things, but the dom making clear in a tender but medical/parent-like form why through the emotional impact – ‘you’ll be there for an hour, even if it’s cold. I want you to feel upset. I want you to feel needy. Let it out, cry. I don’t want you to be happy right now’ – ‘I’ll be sleeping in the real bed, you on the floor in the laundry room. I’ll be warm, and have all the blankets, and sleep well. You’ll have nothing, and it’ll probably make you cry. You won’t get anything from me tonight, because I want you to know you’re being punished. You’ll be sad, and want to express it. You deserve to feel this badly’ etc

A dom giving commands such as – sleeping on the floor – going to ask for clothes when I leave the shower (necessitating me walking naked through the house to find the dom) – eating specific meals/less/specific foods/leftovers of the dom’s meal – having to sit in his lap and make myself cry, or get emotional in silence. Him watching me, maybe playing in between his/my legs as I do this – being forced to stand in the middle of a room and explain why things arouse me/what I’ve done wrong and why it turns me on – having to behave ‘sexy’/be sexualised (forced lap dance/striptease) in spite of it making me uncomfortable (perhaps to the point of being upset but aroused) and suffer embarrassment of not doing it well because of this

And eventual acceptance/reassurance from things like the above – eventual ‘stop, you’re done. I know it was embarrassing and upsetting, but I don’t want you to continue.’ after doing humiliating things the dom commanded in the first place – specifying me to give in when I feel like it for certain commands (e.g. sleeping on the floor), like being too cold and running upstairs to ask my dom if I can sleep with him (which he would say yes with great reassurance) – mutual upset post-embarrassment/punishment, almost like mirroring my own upset to make me even more embarrassed. If I get shy or teary, the dom would almost get that way too to deliberately show me it’s both okay/as embarrassing as it looks on him

Any idea what this would fall under? What it could be? The air would be very, very serious. Very quiet, and very paternal in the punishment and reassurance styles. 🤔

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