My (32f) bf (30m) takes pills for his ED, but has been having a bit of trouble still /u/Turbulent-Owl6728 Sex

He was having a lot of trouble staying hard when we were trying to transition from foreplay to sex today. Also we’re both relatively inexperienced. We’ve been together 8 months and at first I didn’t even know about his ED and he hadn’t had any issues, but lately I’ve noticed during our longer sessions he will have a spot of trouble staying hard here and there, but tonight it kept happening. (We’ve been having PIV sex for about two months now). He would put a condom on, lube up, and we’d try to put it in and he kept going soft so I would go down on him to get him going again, even took short breaks. I’m wondering if it was more mental than anything bc he said he was getting in his head and feeling ‘demotivated’ or something like that, I can’t remember his exact words. I told him it wasn’t a huge deal and we’d work around it, and that I was sorry he was feeling down about it. In the car on the way home I tried bringing it up again saying I was sorry he was dealing with that and I didn’t find it a huge deal. I hope I said the right things, im still a little worried about how he’s feeling about it. I love him and while not ideal, this issue isn’t the end of the world, I just hope it doesn’t get worse. Do you think I should bring it up one more time and ask him how he’s feeling? For all I know he could be over it, I just know this can be very sensitive for some dudes and I don’t want him to feel down on himself about it. Any other advice on anything I touched on would also be appreciated 🙂 he is my first sexual partner so I’ve never dealt with something like this.

He was having a lot of trouble staying hard when we were trying to transition from foreplay to sex today. Also we’re both relatively inexperienced. We’ve been together 8 months and at first I didn’t even know about his ED and he hadn’t had any issues, but lately I’ve noticed during our longer sessions he will have a spot of trouble staying hard here and there, but tonight it kept happening. (We’ve been having PIV sex for about two months now). He would put a condom on, lube up, and we’d try to put it in and he kept going soft so I would go down on him to get him going again, even took short breaks. I’m wondering if it was more mental than anything bc he said he was getting in his head and feeling ‘demotivated’ or something like that, I can’t remember his exact words. I told him it wasn’t a huge deal and we’d work around it, and that I was sorry he was feeling down about it. In the car on the way home I tried bringing it up again saying I was sorry he was dealing with that and I didn’t find it a huge deal. I hope I said the right things, im still a little worried about how he’s feeling about it. I love him and while not ideal, this issue isn’t the end of the world, I just hope it doesn’t get worse. Do you think I should bring it up one more time and ask him how he’s feeling? For all I know he could be over it, I just know this can be very sensitive for some dudes and I don’t want him to feel down on himself about it. Any other advice on anything I touched on would also be appreciated 🙂 he is my first sexual partner so I’ve never dealt with something like this.