My girlfriend struggles to orgasm consistently—any advice? /u/Federal-Pumpkin9958 Sex

I (M30) have been dating my girlfriend (F37) for a month now, and I’ve noticed that she doesn’t orgasm every time we have sex. I’d say she climaxes about 30% of the time. What’s interesting is that she often gets very close, but most of the time, she can’t quite finish.

The easiest way for her to orgasm is when she’s on top, but I’ve also made her cum in missionary and doggy positions. Additionally, I’ve made her cum during oral with fingering, though she says those aren’t as intense as the ones she has during intercourse.

What’s puzzling is that when she’s close but doesn’t finish, it seems like no matter how much longer we go, she won’t get there. I’m wondering if there’s something I can do differently. Should I focus on lasting longer, try new techniques, or maybe introduce something like a toy?

I’d love to hear suggestions or insights from anyone who’s experienced something similar. Thanks!

I (M30) have been dating my girlfriend (F37) for a month now, and I’ve noticed that she doesn’t orgasm every time we have sex. I’d say she climaxes about 30% of the time. What’s interesting is that she often gets very close, but most of the time, she can’t quite finish.

The easiest way for her to orgasm is when she’s on top, but I’ve also made her cum in missionary and doggy positions. Additionally, I’ve made her cum during oral with fingering, though she says those aren’t as intense as the ones she has during intercourse.

What’s puzzling is that when she’s close but doesn’t finish, it seems like no matter how much longer we go, she won’t get there. I’m wondering if there’s something I can do differently. Should I focus on lasting longer, try new techniques, or maybe introduce something like a toy?

I’d love to hear suggestions or insights from anyone who’s experienced something similar. Thanks!