Me M23 and my gf F21. I love her very much and we have the best relationship on planet earth, but our sex life doesn’t bring any feelings in me. We have sex occasionally, but I am never mentally turned on. Whenever we foreplay or have sex, my mind is busy thinking of something completely different like food or hobbies. I just don’t feel any arousal at all and it’s utterly boring.
Unlike sex, masturbation is much more enjoyable for me. I can feel the heat in my body, the heart racing and all the good things about being turned on. I am all in when I masturbate and I absolutely love solo play. It leaves me totally satisfied at the end and it’s just a way better experience than having actual sex.
Has anyone else experienced this? What could be the cause?
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r/sex Me M23 and my gf F21. I love her very much and we have the best relationship on planet earth, but our sex life doesn’t bring any feelings in me. We have sex occasionally, but I am never mentally turned on. Whenever we foreplay or have sex, my mind is busy thinking of something completely different like food or hobbies. I just don’t feel any arousal at all and it’s utterly boring. Unlike sex, masturbation is much more enjoyable for me. I can feel the heat in my body, the heart racing and all the good things about being turned on. I am all in when I masturbate and I absolutely love solo play. It leaves me totally satisfied at the end and it’s just a way better experience than having actual sex. Has anyone else experienced this? What could be the cause? submitted by /u/Icy-Formal8190 [link] [comments]
Me M23 and my gf F21. I love her very much and we have the best relationship on planet earth, but our sex life doesn’t bring any feelings in me. We have sex occasionally, but I am never mentally turned on. Whenever we foreplay or have sex, my mind is busy thinking of something completely different like food or hobbies. I just don’t feel any arousal at all and it’s utterly boring.
Unlike sex, masturbation is much more enjoyable for me. I can feel the heat in my body, the heart racing and all the good things about being turned on. I am all in when I masturbate and I absolutely love solo play. It leaves me totally satisfied at the end and it’s just a way better experience than having actual sex.
Has anyone else experienced this? What could be the cause?
submitted by /u/Icy-Formal8190
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