33-Year Old Woman Took My Virginity, Now She Wants to Be FWB /u/chri99_ Sex

TL;DR:
I’m in my 20s, and a 33-year-old woman I know well took my virginity. She’s confident, funny, and easy to talk to. We were hanging out at the bar, and I mentioned being a virgin. Later, she invited me to her place, and after a comfortable conversation, we ended up sleeping together. She was patient and guided me through the experience. A few days later, she asked if I’d be interested in being FWB, which I’m open to, but I’m wondering if things could get complicated or if either of us might catch feelings.

Any advice on how to handle it?

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I’m in my 20s, and a 33 year old woman I’ve known for about 4 years recently took my virginity. She works as a bartender at a bar I often go to, so we’ve gotten to know each other pretty well over time. She’s single, by the way, which makes this whole thing a little less complicated.

She’s confident, funny, and really easy to talk to. She’s the kind of person who can make anyone feel comfortable, and she has this no-nonsense, direct attitude that I really admire. At the same time, she’s super caring and knows how to read people, which I think is part of what made the experience so great.

Here’s how it happened: I was at the bar one evening, and we got to talking like we usually do. The conversation turned a bit more personal than usual, we started joking about relationships, dating, and experiences. I mentioned (a bit nervously) that I was still a virgin, and she didn’t judge me at all. Instead, she said something like, “Well, there’s nothing wrong with that,” and the conversation moved on.

Later, when her shift ended, she asked if I wanted to grab a drink with her at her place. I didn’t think much of it at first, but when we got there, the vibe shifted. We were sitting on her couch, talking and laughing, and she suddenly asked if I’d ever wanted to “just get it over with” when it came to losing my virginity. I was a little surprised, but I said, “Yeah, I guess, but I’d want it to be with someone I trust.”

That’s when she looked at me and said, “Well, you trust me, don’t you?” It caught me off guard, but the way she said it made me feel safe and comfortable. She made it clear that there was no pressure and that it was completely up to me. After a moment, I said yes.

From there, she took the lead, guiding me every step of the way. She was incredibly patient and made sure I wasn’t nervous. She took her time explaining what she liked and guided me step by step. When she showed me how to go down on her, she didn’t just tell me what to do, she gave feedback in the moment, letting me know when I was doing it right. It felt really natural, and I could tell she was genuinely enjoying herself, which made me feel more confident.

Yesterday, when I saw her again, she asked if I’d be interested in being FWB. Honestly, I want to. The idea of being with her like that again is really exciting. But I’m wondering if it could get complicated or if I or her might start catching feelings

Any advice on how to handle it or things to keep in mind?

TL;DR:
I’m in my 20s, and a 33-year-old woman I know well took my virginity. She’s confident, funny, and easy to talk to. We were hanging out at the bar, and I mentioned being a virgin. Later, she invited me to her place, and after a comfortable conversation, we ended up sleeping together. She was patient and guided me through the experience. A few days later, she asked if I’d be interested in being FWB, which I’m open to, but I’m wondering if things could get complicated or if either of us might catch feelings.

Any advice on how to handle it?

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I’m in my 20s, and a 33 year old woman I’ve known for about 4 years recently took my virginity. She works as a bartender at a bar I often go to, so we’ve gotten to know each other pretty well over time. She’s single, by the way, which makes this whole thing a little less complicated.

She’s confident, funny, and really easy to talk to. She’s the kind of person who can make anyone feel comfortable, and she has this no-nonsense, direct attitude that I really admire. At the same time, she’s super caring and knows how to read people, which I think is part of what made the experience so great.

Here’s how it happened: I was at the bar one evening, and we got to talking like we usually do. The conversation turned a bit more personal than usual, we started joking about relationships, dating, and experiences. I mentioned (a bit nervously) that I was still a virgin, and she didn’t judge me at all. Instead, she said something like, “Well, there’s nothing wrong with that,” and the conversation moved on.

Later, when her shift ended, she asked if I wanted to grab a drink with her at her place. I didn’t think much of it at first, but when we got there, the vibe shifted. We were sitting on her couch, talking and laughing, and she suddenly asked if I’d ever wanted to “just get it over with” when it came to losing my virginity. I was a little surprised, but I said, “Yeah, I guess, but I’d want it to be with someone I trust.”

That’s when she looked at me and said, “Well, you trust me, don’t you?” It caught me off guard, but the way she said it made me feel safe and comfortable. She made it clear that there was no pressure and that it was completely up to me. After a moment, I said yes.

From there, she took the lead, guiding me every step of the way. She was incredibly patient and made sure I wasn’t nervous. She took her time explaining what she liked and guided me step by step. When she showed me how to go down on her, she didn’t just tell me what to do, she gave feedback in the moment, letting me know when I was doing it right. It felt really natural, and I could tell she was genuinely enjoying herself, which made me feel more confident.

Yesterday, when I saw her again, she asked if I’d be interested in being FWB. Honestly, I want to. The idea of being with her like that again is really exciting. But I’m wondering if it could get complicated or if I or her might start catching feelings

Any advice on how to handle it or things to keep in mind?