How do I (21F) deal with the insecurity that I’m not able to fully satisfy my partner (26M)? /u/ThrowRAmessdup Sex

I (21F) started dating this guy (26M) a month ago, and the sex has been great for the most part. He’s very giving and easily makes me cum. However, I know I can’t fully satisfy him, and I feel self conscious about it. His penis is a bit bigger than average, and he can’t fully thrust without it hurting me. I ask him to be more careful to not go deep all the way, and I appreciate that he listens and makes an effort to do so. He said he prefers to go deep, so I’ve tried to compromise and try to find positions that work better. His favorite position is doggy, though, and that’s the position that is the most limiting (easier to hit my cervix if he’s not careful).

We always do foreplay, and I’m super turned on, so the issue isn’t that I’m not aroused enough.

He never complains about the sex and says he enjoys it. But I can’t help but feel bad that I’m not able to take it all the way as he usually likes it. I brought up the Ohnut as a solution, and he was happy to try it. It hasn’t come in the mail yet, but hopefully it helps.

I can’t help thinking that this is all an inconvenience for him, even though he never makes it seem like it is. I don’t know why he wants to see me, when he could spend time with someone else who is more compatible with him sexually without having to use a buffer. Should I bring up this insecurity to him, and if so, how should I approach the conversation?

I (21F) started dating this guy (26M) a month ago, and the sex has been great for the most part. He’s very giving and easily makes me cum. However, I know I can’t fully satisfy him, and I feel self conscious about it. His penis is a bit bigger than average, and he can’t fully thrust without it hurting me. I ask him to be more careful to not go deep all the way, and I appreciate that he listens and makes an effort to do so. He said he prefers to go deep, so I’ve tried to compromise and try to find positions that work better. His favorite position is doggy, though, and that’s the position that is the most limiting (easier to hit my cervix if he’s not careful).

We always do foreplay, and I’m super turned on, so the issue isn’t that I’m not aroused enough.

He never complains about the sex and says he enjoys it. But I can’t help but feel bad that I’m not able to take it all the way as he usually likes it. I brought up the Ohnut as a solution, and he was happy to try it. It hasn’t come in the mail yet, but hopefully it helps.

I can’t help thinking that this is all an inconvenience for him, even though he never makes it seem like it is. I don’t know why he wants to see me, when he could spend time with someone else who is more compatible with him sexually without having to use a buffer. Should I bring up this insecurity to him, and if so, how should I approach the conversation?