So I (27M) consider myself mostly straight because I never found a man I met irl sexually attractive. ‘Mostly’ because I still find femboys on the internet hot. I always thought that I was simply attracted by femininity rather than a specific gender, until recently when a new fantasy popped up in my brain.
In this scenario I jerk off a stranger who’s hands are bound (Of course with consent) while my girlfriend watches us. He is tall, manly and handsome but becomes desperate and pathetic while I edge him. I talk dirty to him about how great his cock is and how manly he is while refraining from showing any kind of intimacy. At some point my girlfriend joins in and together, one hand each, we bring him to orgasm.
Over the past few days I have been trying to explain this fantasy but haven’t reached a satisfying conclusion. Am I afraid of being intimate with a man only accepting homoerotic thoughs if they feel very safe and one sided? Am I just very sexually dominant and dominating a man would give me a bigger rush?
Does someone experience similar thoughts?
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r/sex So I (27M) consider myself mostly straight because I never found a man I met irl sexually attractive. ‘Mostly’ because I still find femboys on the internet hot. I always thought that I was simply attracted by femininity rather than a specific gender, until recently when a new fantasy popped up in my brain. In this scenario I jerk off a stranger who’s hands are bound (Of course with consent) while my girlfriend watches us. He is tall, manly and handsome but becomes desperate and pathetic while I edge him. I talk dirty to him about how great his cock is and how manly he is while refraining from showing any kind of intimacy. At some point my girlfriend joins in and together, one hand each, we bring him to orgasm. Over the past few days I have been trying to explain this fantasy but haven’t reached a satisfying conclusion. Am I afraid of being intimate with a man only accepting homoerotic thoughs if they feel very safe and one sided? Am I just very sexually dominant and dominating a man would give me a bigger rush? Does someone experience similar thoughts? submitted by /u/Yere145 [link] [comments]
So I (27M) consider myself mostly straight because I never found a man I met irl sexually attractive. ‘Mostly’ because I still find femboys on the internet hot. I always thought that I was simply attracted by femininity rather than a specific gender, until recently when a new fantasy popped up in my brain.
In this scenario I jerk off a stranger who’s hands are bound (Of course with consent) while my girlfriend watches us. He is tall, manly and handsome but becomes desperate and pathetic while I edge him. I talk dirty to him about how great his cock is and how manly he is while refraining from showing any kind of intimacy. At some point my girlfriend joins in and together, one hand each, we bring him to orgasm.
Over the past few days I have been trying to explain this fantasy but haven’t reached a satisfying conclusion. Am I afraid of being intimate with a man only accepting homoerotic thoughs if they feel very safe and one sided? Am I just very sexually dominant and dominating a man would give me a bigger rush?
Does someone experience similar thoughts?
submitted by /u/Yere145
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