Should I(19F) ask my boyfriend(20M) to have threesome? /u/luv_r4d_x0x0 Sex

Me and my boyfriend are both pretty open sexually and like experimenting with new things. We were recently watching ‘Sex and The City’ and got to the threesome episode, which started a conversation about us having a threesome. We both said we’d do it if we were single but on the fence about how that’s gonna affect our relationship.

I don’t think I’d be comfortable having a threesome with another women. I feel like there’s always a girl actually engaging in sex and another just playing with herself in the corner, and being the one watching would crush me. I told him that and he said he’d be fine with either MMF or MFF.

I love the idea and it really turns me on, but I’m scared that’s gonna affect our relationship or sex dynamic and that’s scary. I feel like everyone I talk to thinks this is a horrible idea. Looking mainly for advice from people in relationships that have done this before. Is it a mistake?

Me and my boyfriend are both pretty open sexually and like experimenting with new things. We were recently watching ‘Sex and The City’ and got to the threesome episode, which started a conversation about us having a threesome. We both said we’d do it if we were single but on the fence about how that’s gonna affect our relationship.

I don’t think I’d be comfortable having a threesome with another women. I feel like there’s always a girl actually engaging in sex and another just playing with herself in the corner, and being the one watching would crush me. I told him that and he said he’d be fine with either MMF or MFF.

I love the idea and it really turns me on, but I’m scared that’s gonna affect our relationship or sex dynamic and that’s scary. I feel like everyone I talk to thinks this is a horrible idea. Looking mainly for advice from people in relationships that have done this before. Is it a mistake?