I feel like we don’t have enough sex (comparing)? /u/JustAnotherPolarBear Sex

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. I’m very sexually active, and he says he is too. We were really close friends before becoming a couple, so he shared a lot of intimate details about his previous relationship. I know he used to have sex 3 times a day with his ex, even though he worked 12-hour shifts, and once he told me they did it 9 times in a single day.

Sometimes I stay over at his place, and one day we spent 24 hours together. During that time, we had sex 3 times, which is fine, I guess. But knowing he once did it 9 times in a day has made me compare. Honestly, I feel like 3 times a day is a bit low for me—I’m even more active than that.

I don’t feel as desired as I’d like to, and I don’t know how to approach this topic with him. If he doesn’t want me as much as he wanted his ex, I’m not sure if I’d want to continue this relationship.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. I’m very sexually active, and he says he is too. We were really close friends before becoming a couple, so he shared a lot of intimate details about his previous relationship. I know he used to have sex 3 times a day with his ex, even though he worked 12-hour shifts, and once he told me they did it 9 times in a single day.

Sometimes I stay over at his place, and one day we spent 24 hours together. During that time, we had sex 3 times, which is fine, I guess. But knowing he once did it 9 times in a day has made me compare. Honestly, I feel like 3 times a day is a bit low for me—I’m even more active than that.

I don’t feel as desired as I’d like to, and I don’t know how to approach this topic with him. If he doesn’t want me as much as he wanted his ex, I’m not sure if I’d want to continue this relationship.