So I’m not a total newbie to prostate stimulation, I’ve attempted it using just my fingers maybe 5/6 times in my life. Eventually, I got used to it and figured out what I was doing and I was getting to a point where I felt right on the edge of something amazing. Like there was a tiny star inside me about to supernova, but I could never manage it. The angle is too awkward and my arm/fingers would always get tired, and the feeling would fade away and I’d have to start again. Eventually I’d just jerk off and feel gross that I just spent 45 minutes with my fingers in my ass.
Anyway, I now live with my girlfriend of about 18 months, living together for almost 5 months. Our sex life is great, we’re fairly regular and both enjoy what we do together. However, my girlfriend isn’t really interested in much outside of vanilla sex. The most kinky thing she’s done is go down on me, and even then that’s only happened twice. I’ve asked her about kinks and interest in sexual exploration and she’s basically said she feels pretty content with what we do already. No real fantasies she wants to live out or acts she wants to perform. She’s only really interested in basic PIV sex.
Anyway, to close, I’ve been thinking about buying a small prostate massager, to use on my own when she’s out of the house, just to see if I can finally get that orgasm I’ve heard so much about, because it really does sound awesome. But the problem is I don’t know if it would be better or worse to tell her. She’s very supportive and understanding, but I worry she would be really freaked out to know anal toys are something I’m interested in, however if I were to hide it from her, I’d worry she’d find the toy one day and be doubly freaked out that I’m into that stuff and also that I hid it from her. Any ideas? Ways I could subtly pitch the idea without sounding too keen, just to test the waters?
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r/sex So I’m not a total newbie to prostate stimulation, I’ve attempted it using just my fingers maybe 5/6 times in my life. Eventually, I got used to it and figured out what I was doing and I was getting to a point where I felt right on the edge of something amazing. Like there was a tiny star inside me about to supernova, but I could never manage it. The angle is too awkward and my arm/fingers would always get tired, and the feeling would fade away and I’d have to start again. Eventually I’d just jerk off and feel gross that I just spent 45 minutes with my fingers in my ass. Anyway, I now live with my girlfriend of about 18 months, living together for almost 5 months. Our sex life is great, we’re fairly regular and both enjoy what we do together. However, my girlfriend isn’t really interested in much outside of vanilla sex. The most kinky thing she’s done is go down on me, and even then that’s only happened twice. I’ve asked her about kinks and interest in sexual exploration and she’s basically said she feels pretty content with what we do already. No real fantasies she wants to live out or acts she wants to perform. She’s only really interested in basic PIV sex. Anyway, to close, I’ve been thinking about buying a small prostate massager, to use on my own when she’s out of the house, just to see if I can finally get that orgasm I’ve heard so much about, because it really does sound awesome. But the problem is I don’t know if it would be better or worse to tell her. She’s very supportive and understanding, but I worry she would be really freaked out to know anal toys are something I’m interested in, however if I were to hide it from her, I’d worry she’d find the toy one day and be doubly freaked out that I’m into that stuff and also that I hid it from her. Any ideas? Ways I could subtly pitch the idea without sounding too keen, just to test the waters? submitted by /u/Throwaway_16324 [link] [comments]
So I’m not a total newbie to prostate stimulation, I’ve attempted it using just my fingers maybe 5/6 times in my life. Eventually, I got used to it and figured out what I was doing and I was getting to a point where I felt right on the edge of something amazing. Like there was a tiny star inside me about to supernova, but I could never manage it. The angle is too awkward and my arm/fingers would always get tired, and the feeling would fade away and I’d have to start again. Eventually I’d just jerk off and feel gross that I just spent 45 minutes with my fingers in my ass.
Anyway, I now live with my girlfriend of about 18 months, living together for almost 5 months. Our sex life is great, we’re fairly regular and both enjoy what we do together. However, my girlfriend isn’t really interested in much outside of vanilla sex. The most kinky thing she’s done is go down on me, and even then that’s only happened twice. I’ve asked her about kinks and interest in sexual exploration and she’s basically said she feels pretty content with what we do already. No real fantasies she wants to live out or acts she wants to perform. She’s only really interested in basic PIV sex.
Anyway, to close, I’ve been thinking about buying a small prostate massager, to use on my own when she’s out of the house, just to see if I can finally get that orgasm I’ve heard so much about, because it really does sound awesome. But the problem is I don’t know if it would be better or worse to tell her. She’s very supportive and understanding, but I worry she would be really freaked out to know anal toys are something I’m interested in, however if I were to hide it from her, I’d worry she’d find the toy one day and be doubly freaked out that I’m into that stuff and also that I hid it from her. Any ideas? Ways I could subtly pitch the idea without sounding too keen, just to test the waters?
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