1.5 years ago my husband lost his brother to suicide. It has been a long, heartbreaking grieving process for my dear husband. However, for the past several months his mental health has vastly improved and he’s been enjoying a great new job. My husband and I are best friends. He’s my favorite person in the world and the love of my life. Unfortunately, ever since his brother’s passing he has next to no sexual desire for me. At one point we went a solid six months with no sexual contact whatsoever. I have no interest in masturbation or pornography. The hardest part about this dry spell isn’t even the absence of sex; it’s that I’m not wanted. Physical touch is my primary love language and I have a high libido on top of that. I hate myself for fantasizing about other men (particularly ones who seem to find me attractive) in a fruitless attempt to fill the void. We’ve discussed this on multiple occasions, but nothing has changed. I firmly believe that no one owes sex to anyone for any reason. But fuck! Sometimes I’m so desperate to be touched by a man who wants me that I break into tears. I have no idea what to do other than come here to vent and discuss this with my therapist. Thank you for reading. Just sending these feelings out there helps. ✌️
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r/sex 1.5 years ago my husband lost his brother to suicide. It has been a long, heartbreaking grieving process for my dear husband. However, for the past several months his mental health has vastly improved and he’s been enjoying a great new job. My husband and I are best friends. He’s my favorite person in the world and the love of my life. Unfortunately, ever since his brother’s passing he has next to no sexual desire for me. At one point we went a solid six months with no sexual contact whatsoever. I have no interest in masturbation or pornography. The hardest part about this dry spell isn’t even the absence of sex; it’s that I’m not wanted. Physical touch is my primary love language and I have a high libido on top of that. I hate myself for fantasizing about other men (particularly ones who seem to find me attractive) in a fruitless attempt to fill the void. We’ve discussed this on multiple occasions, but nothing has changed. I firmly believe that no one owes sex to anyone for any reason. But fuck! Sometimes I’m so desperate to be touched by a man who wants me that I break into tears. I have no idea what to do other than come here to vent and discuss this with my therapist. Thank you for reading. Just sending these feelings out there helps. ✌️ submitted by /u/ButItWasYouWhoLeftMe [link] [comments]
1.5 years ago my husband lost his brother to suicide. It has been a long, heartbreaking grieving process for my dear husband. However, for the past several months his mental health has vastly improved and he’s been enjoying a great new job. My husband and I are best friends. He’s my favorite person in the world and the love of my life. Unfortunately, ever since his brother’s passing he has next to no sexual desire for me. At one point we went a solid six months with no sexual contact whatsoever. I have no interest in masturbation or pornography. The hardest part about this dry spell isn’t even the absence of sex; it’s that I’m not wanted. Physical touch is my primary love language and I have a high libido on top of that. I hate myself for fantasizing about other men (particularly ones who seem to find me attractive) in a fruitless attempt to fill the void. We’ve discussed this on multiple occasions, but nothing has changed. I firmly believe that no one owes sex to anyone for any reason. But fuck! Sometimes I’m so desperate to be touched by a man who wants me that I break into tears. I have no idea what to do other than come here to vent and discuss this with my therapist. Thank you for reading. Just sending these feelings out there helps. ✌️
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