Need advice peeps . Okay, I couldn’t find any post like this so I need your suggestion peeps, I’ve been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now, I’ve known her personally before hand. Now the problem is she opened with me sometime ago, regarding some unsettling issues from her past, like sexual harassment, can’t say molestation exactly but she was touched and held that way (for instance once in her college which is an all girls one, boys broken in some event and a guy groped her and she froze in fear) Because of those things which happened she keeps on getting nightmares about it. Now in an LDR i can’t do much but can anyone tell me why this is happening with her? Like for a period of 6 months it stopped happening and now those nightmares have started again, nothing has happened with her recently which could trigger that but still.
Didn’t know whether this was the right sub to discuss but really need your input peeps.
P.S: I know therapy exists and that is something I’ve already asked her to go for.
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r/sex Need advice peeps . Okay, I couldn’t find any post like this so I need your suggestion peeps, I’ve been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now, I’ve known her personally before hand. Now the problem is she opened with me sometime ago, regarding some unsettling issues from her past, like sexual harassment, can’t say molestation exactly but she was touched and held that way (for instance once in her college which is an all girls one, boys broken in some event and a guy groped her and she froze in fear) Because of those things which happened she keeps on getting nightmares about it. Now in an LDR i can’t do much but can anyone tell me why this is happening with her? Like for a period of 6 months it stopped happening and now those nightmares have started again, nothing has happened with her recently which could trigger that but still. Didn’t know whether this was the right sub to discuss but really need your input peeps. P.S: I know therapy exists and that is something I’ve already asked her to go for. submitted by /u/ThunderFi5t [link] [comments]
Need advice peeps . Okay, I couldn’t find any post like this so I need your suggestion peeps, I’ve been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now, I’ve known her personally before hand. Now the problem is she opened with me sometime ago, regarding some unsettling issues from her past, like sexual harassment, can’t say molestation exactly but she was touched and held that way (for instance once in her college which is an all girls one, boys broken in some event and a guy groped her and she froze in fear) Because of those things which happened she keeps on getting nightmares about it. Now in an LDR i can’t do much but can anyone tell me why this is happening with her? Like for a period of 6 months it stopped happening and now those nightmares have started again, nothing has happened with her recently which could trigger that but still.
Didn’t know whether this was the right sub to discuss but really need your input peeps.
P.S: I know therapy exists and that is something I’ve already asked her to go for.
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