Hello, I hope all is well. I’ve been eyeing this sub for a while and decided to ask for some perspective. Here’s the situation: There’s this guy (M24) I (F22) met a few years ago. He moved to a different country, and we reconnected recently because we work in the same field. At first, we exchanged casual messages and photos, but things got flirty really fast and eventually turned sexual. We started exchanged intimate pics and sexting. We entertained this for 5 months. This week, he came back to our town to visit family. He asked me to hang out once, but I couldn’t make it. A few days later, I sent him a flirty pic, and he responded saying he wanted me. Things escalated, we started sexting, and we agreed to meet up on a specific day. He made it clear he wanted to hook up —like, very clear. So, the dick appointment day rolls around. I got a full-on Brazilian wax, feeling prepared and ready. And then? Radio silence.
By the wise words of Megan Thee Stallion: I ain’t never had to chase dick in my life. So, I didn’t make a big deal about it and moved on. But honestly? This is the second time I’ve been sex-ghosted? by a guy who showed interest and explicitly said he wanted to hook up. He hasn’t reached out to reschedule or even mention it-just casually wished me a Happy New Year like nothing happened.
I’m not upset, but I’m curious: why does this happen? Is it a lack of follow-through, or are some men just performative with their interest? Did I talk “sexual” too early on, even though he expressed a very strong interest in me? What in post-nut clarity is this 😭
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r/sex Hello, I hope all is well. I’ve been eyeing this sub for a while and decided to ask for some perspective. Here’s the situation: There’s this guy (M24) I (F22) met a few years ago. He moved to a different country, and we reconnected recently because we work in the same field. At first, we exchanged casual messages and photos, but things got flirty really fast and eventually turned sexual. We started exchanged intimate pics and sexting. We entertained this for 5 months. This week, he came back to our town to visit family. He asked me to hang out once, but I couldn’t make it. A few days later, I sent him a flirty pic, and he responded saying he wanted me. Things escalated, we started sexting, and we agreed to meet up on a specific day. He made it clear he wanted to hook up —like, very clear. So, the dick appointment day rolls around. I got a full-on Brazilian wax, feeling prepared and ready. And then? Radio silence. By the wise words of Megan Thee Stallion: I ain’t never had to chase dick in my life. So, I didn’t make a big deal about it and moved on. But honestly? This is the second time I’ve been sex-ghosted? by a guy who showed interest and explicitly said he wanted to hook up. He hasn’t reached out to reschedule or even mention it-just casually wished me a Happy New Year like nothing happened. I’m not upset, but I’m curious: why does this happen? Is it a lack of follow-through, or are some men just performative with their interest? Did I talk “sexual” too early on, even though he expressed a very strong interest in me? What in post-nut clarity is this 😭 submitted by /u/yappuccino7 [link] [comments]
Hello, I hope all is well. I’ve been eyeing this sub for a while and decided to ask for some perspective. Here’s the situation: There’s this guy (M24) I (F22) met a few years ago. He moved to a different country, and we reconnected recently because we work in the same field. At first, we exchanged casual messages and photos, but things got flirty really fast and eventually turned sexual. We started exchanged intimate pics and sexting. We entertained this for 5 months. This week, he came back to our town to visit family. He asked me to hang out once, but I couldn’t make it. A few days later, I sent him a flirty pic, and he responded saying he wanted me. Things escalated, we started sexting, and we agreed to meet up on a specific day. He made it clear he wanted to hook up —like, very clear. So, the dick appointment day rolls around. I got a full-on Brazilian wax, feeling prepared and ready. And then? Radio silence.
By the wise words of Megan Thee Stallion: I ain’t never had to chase dick in my life. So, I didn’t make a big deal about it and moved on. But honestly? This is the second time I’ve been sex-ghosted? by a guy who showed interest and explicitly said he wanted to hook up. He hasn’t reached out to reschedule or even mention it-just casually wished me a Happy New Year like nothing happened.
I’m not upset, but I’m curious: why does this happen? Is it a lack of follow-through, or are some men just performative with their interest? Did I talk “sexual” too early on, even though he expressed a very strong interest in me? What in post-nut clarity is this 😭
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