My boyfriend’s great and he really always wants to pleasure me and make me feel really good. I know he also wants to make me cum. But I don’t think I want to? I don’t know how to, and I don’t really have an interest in doing it either. To be honest, I don’t think I’ve ever cum before? I don’t know what it feels like. But if sexual stuff gets too intense I just don’t want to do it anymore.
Sometimes he says he thinks I’ve cum, but I don’t feel any different from normal those times, so… maybe? Maybe.
Touching myself in the ‘traditional’ way (fingering + clitoral stimulation/rubbing) is boring and tiring to me. My boyfriend touching me is fine but gets to be too much.
I like having penetrative sex with my boyfriend, it feels a very comfortable and consistent level of good and pleasurable. Anything more than that… no.
I guess it’s not something that bothers me greatly, unless my boyfriend is asking whether or not I came, because he wants it so bad then it’s embarrassing to say no, but I’m fine. I wonder how people come around to enjoying it.
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r/sex My boyfriend’s great and he really always wants to pleasure me and make me feel really good. I know he also wants to make me cum. But I don’t think I want to? I don’t know how to, and I don’t really have an interest in doing it either. To be honest, I don’t think I’ve ever cum before? I don’t know what it feels like. But if sexual stuff gets too intense I just don’t want to do it anymore. Sometimes he says he thinks I’ve cum, but I don’t feel any different from normal those times, so… maybe? Maybe. Touching myself in the ‘traditional’ way (fingering + clitoral stimulation/rubbing) is boring and tiring to me. My boyfriend touching me is fine but gets to be too much. I like having penetrative sex with my boyfriend, it feels a very comfortable and consistent level of good and pleasurable. Anything more than that… no. I guess it’s not something that bothers me greatly, unless my boyfriend is asking whether or not I came, because he wants it so bad then it’s embarrassing to say no, but I’m fine. I wonder how people come around to enjoying it. submitted by /u/ThrowRA74346753 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend’s great and he really always wants to pleasure me and make me feel really good. I know he also wants to make me cum. But I don’t think I want to? I don’t know how to, and I don’t really have an interest in doing it either. To be honest, I don’t think I’ve ever cum before? I don’t know what it feels like. But if sexual stuff gets too intense I just don’t want to do it anymore.
Sometimes he says he thinks I’ve cum, but I don’t feel any different from normal those times, so… maybe? Maybe.
Touching myself in the ‘traditional’ way (fingering + clitoral stimulation/rubbing) is boring and tiring to me. My boyfriend touching me is fine but gets to be too much.
I like having penetrative sex with my boyfriend, it feels a very comfortable and consistent level of good and pleasurable. Anything more than that… no.
I guess it’s not something that bothers me greatly, unless my boyfriend is asking whether or not I came, because he wants it so bad then it’s embarrassing to say no, but I’m fine. I wonder how people come around to enjoying it.
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