My(20M) gf(20F) and I have been together for about 2 years.
Now, sex has slowed down immensely. In the beginning we’d do it maybe 4 times a week, and now, we haven’t done anything in 2 months.
I know in the past she’s been assaulted by previous exes and I have done everything to make sure she knows I’d never force anything on her or make her do anything she doesn’t want to do.
I love her but it hurts when we watch a show or something and she comments on how good looking a guy or girl is saying she’d smash when I never here stuff like that about me and we’re never intimate. I’d really like to feel like I’m desired sexually but I don’t know how to say it.
How can I bring this up to her without making it seem like I’m desperate or like it’s the only thing I care about in the relationship?
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r/sex My(20M) gf(20F) and I have been together for about 2 years. Now, sex has slowed down immensely. In the beginning we’d do it maybe 4 times a week, and now, we haven’t done anything in 2 months. I know in the past she’s been assaulted by previous exes and I have done everything to make sure she knows I’d never force anything on her or make her do anything she doesn’t want to do. I love her but it hurts when we watch a show or something and she comments on how good looking a guy or girl is saying she’d smash when I never here stuff like that about me and we’re never intimate. I’d really like to feel like I’m desired sexually but I don’t know how to say it. How can I bring this up to her without making it seem like I’m desperate or like it’s the only thing I care about in the relationship? submitted by /u/defaultscamper [link] [comments]
My(20M) gf(20F) and I have been together for about 2 years.
Now, sex has slowed down immensely. In the beginning we’d do it maybe 4 times a week, and now, we haven’t done anything in 2 months.
I know in the past she’s been assaulted by previous exes and I have done everything to make sure she knows I’d never force anything on her or make her do anything she doesn’t want to do.
I love her but it hurts when we watch a show or something and she comments on how good looking a guy or girl is saying she’d smash when I never here stuff like that about me and we’re never intimate. I’d really like to feel like I’m desired sexually but I don’t know how to say it.
How can I bring this up to her without making it seem like I’m desperate or like it’s the only thing I care about in the relationship?
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